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i am a submissive at heart............. I think were all on here to find someone special. I am retired US Military and very self sufficient with rental properties. I live in WV but am wanting to re-locate out of this area, so I am willing to do what it takes to make this work. For me, Home is where I am collared ;) I knw a LOT of men are game players, and most Woman get tired of the BS. However there can be a real connection when one takes a leap of faith even after being hurt or mis-led. So here it is, I am for very real. I am willing to give You my phone number when You request it. That way You will no I am not married and doing anything behind anyone's back. There are no restrictions on when I may be called or texted. That is the only way I know of to prove my honesty and integrity for now. I am a submissive, I offer You my heart, devotion, loyalty and servitude. I can be both terry and Lyndsey. There can be two sides of me if you seek this, The Protector, and the Gurl. You get the best of both worlds with me.....I know I would make a terrific male wife in a FLR.... i am the naughty lil boy most of all in my heart, who craves and longs for Maternal love and discipline only a Strong Woman can provide. I would truly love to hear from You!

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4/29/2017 4:05:29 PM
 

What does the future hold?

2/28/2017 3:05:15 PM
How to introduce your wife, partner or girlfriend to female led relationship

By M. Lyman Hill

     What is wife led relationship? Simply stated, when women lead men who want to be lead in an interpersonal relationship. Wife led relationships are also called female led relationships, wife head of household, woman dominant household, and FLR. FLR (female led relationship) is not new, it has been around for centuries, only now though have we begun to recognize it and understand its dynamics.

     FLR is a "designer" relationship in that the couple comes together and says "this is what we want" as a couple. Couples often change roles promoting the woman to head of household and the man to a more supportive role. Often the woman become the family authority figure and final decision maker. In other words the couple decides what wife led relation means. Men often take on more household chores, serve their mates as a stay at home mom might for her husband. But there is a twist and discovering that twist make all the difference in the world.


2/27/2017 10:28:58 AM
Met a Domme on here a few days ago. She would call and block her number, and after 3 phone conversations she wanted me to send her a Amazon.com gift card. LOL Do I have stupid written on my forehead?

I will not fall for scams, spammers, or Finn Domms who want my money without establishing an honest and trusting relationship that goes both ways. So don't even try!

2/15/2017 5:35:27 AM
As a sub i identify in many roles. it is my place to facilitate the needs of my Mistress and fit into the role that SHE wants, and not the one i want.

here is my bad or naughty boy persona that i identify with:

 
The Bad Boy is the submale whose need for strong feminine authority is most evident in his need to feel that authority, to feel it upon his body as well as his mind.  
 
For this boy, a stinging slap is a powerful statement.
 
The Bad Boy is also referred to as a "whipping boy", useful to a truelife Domme in those periods of stress when she needs an outlet for pent-up frustrations. This can be therapeutic for both on ocassion
 
Indeed, the Bad Boy's inner compass that leads to this adult behavior, may have been created by the cycles of punishment as a child  - where punishment delivered, and followed by a warm hug, and then maybe milk and cookies of reassurance. But now as an adult, being allowed to suckle at Mistress's breast is the best reward i could ever hope to accomplice.
 
There are submales who profess to like to be spanked, however the true Bad Boy has a "need" to be disciplined. 
 
Most truelife Dommes see the word "spank" to be rather childish, and prefer the verb "whip" to have much more impact and lasting effect.  No pitty-patty taps. Punishment must hurt to have any value.
 
A knowledgeable Domme will discipline the submale in such a manner to carry him well beyond any sense of pleasure, and into a zone where excitement begins to stall out in the face of mounting fear - approaching from the other direction. 
 
Yet, he is drawn again and again to yearn for being taken into that zone, for he is the classic bad boy.
 
A truelife Domme will learn it is absolutely amazing what a boy will come to beg for. 
 
While maim is not the objective, a reddened bottom is often the key to "progress" as many a Mother can testify.  
 
Should it happen that marks are still visible the day after, rest assured that the submale will wear them with pride like badges upon his chest and stripes upon his sleeve.
 
It is important to note here, that a truelife Domme will never discipline a boy just because she thinks he likes it, or has even requested it. Indeed, if that were to occur, then it would be entirely fair to ask just "who is serving whom?" 
 
The Bad Boy has sexual needs, but they are secondary to his need for feeling the discipline first. In time, the discipline fuels his sexual needs.
 
What a boy likes or needs is a considered a weakness, and is used by a truelife Domme to accelerate obedience and devotion. 
 
Herein lies the key to training the Bad Boy, or any submale: Discipline always precedes sexual activity of any type. Thus, the two merge into a single strong response where exercise of one begets the desire for the other.  
 
Pavlovian reflex pattern develops.
 
The intertwined needs of bad boy and sex slave represent the classic combination. However, all boys are used as sex slaves to some degree under the control of a strong Woman.  A bad boy craves that Female Led Relationship.

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 Age: 31
 Ontario, Canada