Sub-male who thought switching might be a change,but it was not and I hated doing it.

My life has been very empty over the years as I search for top to both be her bottom first and confidant second and what she wishes third.

This is not a decision made easily for me but once made will be worth the effort for both of us.Also,I have feelings and although a submissive (happy to be one again where I belong)
and being a doormat is not me but loyal,complaint and thoughtful that is me.

Respectfully
bob