What is an Owner? Ah the million dollar question. An owner is one who takes physical, emotional and spiritual possession of a slave. Yeah and so what does that mean? First off, it means that a slave makes two choices of their own.

The first choice is to be a slave. Most submissives choose something less demanding like TPE or just playtime submission. slaves choose slavery because they know they must live as a possession.

The second choice is who they will be owned by. Some do this alone, some get help, some are placed by a mentor or earlier owner. Does not matter how it is done, it does matter that a great deal of care is put into the question – because, the slave makes these two choices and is then stuck with the results no matter what.

If the slave does not agree that she is a possession and therefore must stay no matter what, then by definition, we do not agree on what a slave is. This is critical to choosing me or not. The slave who chooses me knows she is becoming property and knows that an Owner can and will do whatever he wishes with that property.

Now of course the above will/has generated hate mail. So be it. The fact is that as an Owner I can do anything I choose. The question is will I? The answer is, slave must decide this for herself prior to making the choice to become my property. Or better, she makes the choice that pleasing me is far more important than such distracting thoughts.

So what is the slave and what is the Owner? The slave is artist of giving, she is beauty walking, generosity of spirit, elegance, gracious, kind, sweet, service, and most of all she is always seeking to please. The owner is provider, protector, inspiration, guide, teacher, mentor and raison d’etre. Each has responsibilities.