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I wanted a name that conveyed more about what I am into. And I figured this one was better than naming myself MentalMaster :)
Describing what I'm into, and my motivation behind it, it's always very difficult. Especially given I'm trying to do it in a condensed, yet thoughtful way that will allow you to evaluate if our wants, and desires are inline without wasting too much of your time.
First and foremost I'm interested in the mental aspects of BDSM, fully aware that if you capture the mind, the body will easily follow. I'm more of the sensual and erotic type. But based upon mood I can get into anything for slow, sensual erotic teasing, that brings you to the brink only to have your orgasm prolonged for hours as you squirm helplessly, to rough, raw, anamalistic primal fucking.
I am adept at being able to read my partners body, the way it reacts to touching and teasing, I like to push it a bit, but never crossing boundaries. I take particular enjoyment in opening up my partners eyes to a side of her sexuality she has never known, making her orgasm in ways she didn't know were possible or likeable for her.
I'm big on orgasm control, tease and denial etc.
The most attractive and arousing quality a person can have is intelligence. I value that above everything else, especially when a woman knows how to turn that intelligence into sensuality, and a great sense of humor. A great ass is a close second. :)
A sub that serves bc she has a drive to please rather than a threat of punishment, if that makes sense. While discipline and punishment can be a fun behavior modification tool, I derive real pleasure from infiltrating your mind, then your body of course :)
While taboo in our society, spanking fetishes are actually very common. Many men and women fantasize about it, but most don't do anything about it for fear of being judged.
There is something so erotic about and sensual about trusting another enough to allow yourself to be taken over his knee. Knowing you won't be abused, your vulnerability won't be taken advantage of. Spanking isn't about inflicting pain, or about asserting ones dominance, it's about a person giving themselves to another, knowing that the spanker will reward their trust by giving them what they have longed for, for so long. Feeling yourself being teased, your little bottom turning pink as you squirm on my lap, feeling how aroused it makes you to be at my mercy, yet trusting me enough, developing a deeper bond with each sensual swat of the bottom.
I know I didn't do a great job encompassing everything. But does this sound like the type of D/s you envision, or is what you're into completely different?
I enjoy talking with fellow Dominants. It is often the case that we have much in common.
The pic is just some random internet pic -- I did not take it.....
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