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I've been in the lifestyle for around 15 years, give or take a year or two. I love the outdoors
to include hunting, fishing and camping. I'm a volunteer fire fighter and EMT, so I like fire play, (lol) and yes I’m in the first photo.
I'm looking for friends at first, and maybe more later, I really enjoy meeting and talking with people. I love learning new things or ideas.
I'm just a common man. I have no high expectations, I never judge a book by its cover, and I’m honest. Loyal, and up front. A lot of people don't like that about me. But I hate back stabbers and people who talk behind your back. To me that is the same as lying to my face.
I'm a Jack of all trades and a Master of none. Things I enjoy while playing are sensory play, fire play, fire cupping, bondage & suspension, floggers and whips, I have a few different paddles, breast and nipple torture, waxing, saran wrap, breath play, and needle play which I just learned and still practicing on. Now just because I like doing these things doesn't mean I'll use them on you.
The submissive is actually in control, As a Dom I'm just there to help guide you and push you to the very edge of your limits. That is why you have safe words. Which I will never play unless we have them.
I belong to several BDSM communities, which I attend their Munches, Demoes and Play parties I find it is a great way to learn new things and get new Ideas. I even have to travel a few hours to make it to these Functions. But to me it is well worth it and has made some awesome friends through the groups.
I'm not in this lifestyle for the sex. Yes not all of us are here just to get or dicks wet. To me there is nothing more awesome then watching a sub float along in sub space. Wondering where her mind is and where she has gone too. And the look in their eyes you know they are truly not there. And their eyes are glassed over. Their body is a limp noodle and they have no reaction.
But a true Dom knows how to read the signs of you and know when you and your body have been pushed to far. and then he must be there to help you come back down to earth to help comfort you and keep you warm, and to reassure you that you have done nothing wrong and that everything is all good. And then that Dom if he is truly a Dom will be there and keep checking on you so when you have that sub drop. Whether it be a day later or a week later. (Cause we all know what goes up must come down. Right!) But he will be there for you to help you past it and to reassure you that you are ok and that you have done nothing wrong. And I'm always there checking for that Sub Drop. Because I know the drop can be really hard and if I'm not there then you might not be able to pull yourself together by yourself.
Well that is all I have to really say about myself for now. If you want to know more just ask.
Wish you the best of Luck in your search. And Always be Safe Sane and Consensual
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