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| Handsome, cultured Dom seeks submissive for spanking and surrender...
There are no simple lives, and no simple people; and most of the time, most of us are uncomfortable acknowledging the veneer of our civilized lives as such. I seek a woman who is not merely curious, but craves to be lost in deep, sub-space. . . who craves, regularly, to be bound, controlled, spanked and taken, long and artfully. . . I could also be interested in a sub couple. I seek intimacy within the context of complete sexual and psychic surrender. It does not matter if you have no experience; however, if you do, I will take full advantage of this fact.
I am a handsome, highly educated and successful, 5' 9 1/2" 170lbs, muscular and athletic man of 46, a martial-artist by night, with much good fortune in my life. I live in Westchester and work in NYC several days a week.
BDSM has been central to my personal sexuality from my earliest moments of curiosity as a young boy; it is the lens through which I view sexuality. Almost any routine object can, and often does, become an instrument of tortuous delight in my hands Oh, I have all the usual implements one might expect a committed Dominant to have - a variety of paddles, canes of all sorts, clothes pins, nipples clamps, dildos, I am gifted with rope -- and I certainly intend to use them on you, but I don't need any of these items to affect my will and have you collapsed at my feet, or to have you crying out, unable and - more importantly -- unwilling to escape, as your ass grows redder and redder from the stroke of my hand, and you lose yourself in a euphoric, endorphin induced haze. . . the mist of deep sub space.
Be aware, I am married, yet what I do here is not a secret casual "affair." This is a consensual act within the confines of a generally monogamous, polyamorous marriage. Polyamorous does not mean swinging. In this case, it means I share my wife sexually with one other man because it pleases me to do so, as it pleases her to be taken and shared in this way. I am not interested in merely casual fucking or a vanilla affair. I have no interest in 1-night stands, hook-ups or sex parties, for the simple reason that the intimacy and the psychological depth that I require as a Dominant is impossible within that context. This is for she who feels she MUST be a submissive, for her own sake, and because she is prepared to embark on a journey of seduction, yearning, pain and abandon.
I seek a special person, who specifically desires a deeply Dom/sub relationship, and can enjoy and accept that I am looking for you as a confident expression of who I am, not out of unhappiness, or a sense of internal lacking that I hope you will fill. That said, there is an intense bond between a Dominant and submissive who have exchanged mutual trust. This is above and beyond marriage, or any other convention for which society has come up with a deion.
To surrender takes courage. It is an act of immense power and vulnerability that can only be achieved by virtue of deep trust. It is the antithesis of violence and rape. It is a vehicle for powerful catharsis and serves as a source of balance for psycho-sexual expression in our own lives: It is a beautiful and sacred thing, of the earth and our darkest places. It's aesthetic is dark; but, in its sincere form, the exchange between Dominant and submissive is an interplay of sexual power, rooted in the light - that the vehicle for this experience is bondage and temporary pain only serves to increase its desperate urgency, and is not to be confused with suffering: it is an affirmation of my need to control, to Dominate, and a celebration of your need to submit . . . a symbiosis.
Tell me something about yourself. One's sexual power over another exists by virtue of the tacit consent of the one being overpowered. You need make no protestations, denials or qualifications to me. I also understand that you are neither a whore, nor necessarily outwardly slutty, but while I may know what you are NOT, I would know know something of what you are...Please do not ask me for more photos without providing your own; I will just assume you are man pretending to be a woman. Photos don't tell much anyway, much more can be learned over a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. I am in no hurry; I am not interested in having sex with you this Friday, or next week, or just once anonymously. I wish to seduce and enthrall . . .
I look forward to hearing from you
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It never ceases to amaze me how mind-bendingly slutty a truly submissive, lustful woman can be. (said he with appreciation.)
There is no act yet dreamt in the mind of a Dom, no matter how seemingly depraved, that some submissive somewhere is not secretly, desperately yearning to have caused upon her.
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Today, I prevented myself from taking advantage of a friend's momentary vulnerability , a beautiful woman. How easy it would have been to brush aside her murmurs of denial and have her. Yet, emotionally unethical too... I remind myself that Bitterness is the enemy of wisdom.
It would seem the greatest obstacle to finding what we seek is not so much what is "out there" but one's own inability to believe it, once found. What can possibly be worse than cynicism.
Do submissives perceive, I wonder, that a Dominant yearns? How easy it is, and how trivial too, to achieve conquest. Conquest is nothing. The sharp ache of desperate open-hearted surrender is so very hard to find... |
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| Age: 19 |
| Gwynn Oak,
Maryland |
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