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Butterscotch33

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Friendly But strict Domme


Update Nov 2017 Blimey I've been away a long time! Decided to poke my toes into the scene again and reconnect with some of my old friends, and hopefully lots of new ones! Come say hi if you remember me or we've met before. Update May 09

Wow what a journey I have been on since I joined this site back in Winter 08 fuelled only by a desire to finally release the dominatrix within me.

Always a dominant woman, it was exciting to immerse myself into the scene in Jan 09 and unleash my sadistic and sensual side on all the subs who crossed my path since.

I remember being in the collarme chatrooms listening to all the real life stories and wondering what it would be like for me?and hoping that my experiences woudl happen shortly.

{Now..I run my own kinky play parties in? Romford, and feel like I've been here all my life. Memo me for details if you are interested in attending - EDIT I no longer run these but info on similar parties can be found on IC have fun x}

Love CBT, nipple torture, bondage, tease and denial?and humiliation but there are so many wonderful options to choose from , I would be silly to deny myself any of them, and believe me I am having a whale of a time experimenting LOL

I rarely come here anymore, am normally over on Informed Consent as it's a UK basd site, where I have met loads of lovely kinky people out and about, and hope to meet many more.

Not looking for domestic service at this moment in time, not interested in anyone under 25 or anyone in a relationship.

As much fun as I'm having playing casually in and around London and Essex, essentially I want a long term relationship.

Don't bother sending one liners, I have a brain stimulate it.? Am not interested in online domination I prefer real life play.

Come say hello but don't waste my time unless you are willing to meet in real life or are married blah blah blah!


3/14/2018 3:20:36 PM
Back from Canada! What an amazing experience, fabulously friendly people and the most beautiful place. I met up with about 20 friends whilst I was out there and just had the best time. Can't wait to go back!
12/7/2017 12:43:09 PM
Oh how annoying, have just found out tonight is the Stratford Munch, and it's too late to start getting ready and get there. Bloody typical, seem to be missing everything lately.
12/6/2017 2:03:07 PM
Seems I just missed out on going to the London Alternative Market, such a shame. However, I will have to try and remember to keep my diary clear for the next one!
11/25/2017 6:08:59 PM
How can you misplace a whole suitcase full of toys and pervertables? #baffled
7/1/2009 4:22:20 AM
It's been ages since my last blog entry, and so much has happened since then

Not least the running of my own parties which have bene somuch fun, who would have guessed it back in January lol not me!!

Went to another fabulous play party in South London last Friday, was funny getting lost on the way and trying to avoid the congestion charges but the Last Man Standing Ball Busting competition was great fun.

I'm still getting used to meeting people who I've seen post a lot and who are big scene players, it's always a thrill for me, and it's fantastic getting to know everyone.

I can't believe that I didn't enter the scene for years because I was intimidated by what I thought all the clubs and people would be like, as I'm not a clubber at all.  I must have met a good couple of hundred people now, and I think out of all of those I only disliked a handful.

I've made so many friends and everyone has been so welcoming and friendly, and one of the highlights is becoming friends with so many lovely dommes who always make me laughand with whom I have so much fun.

I expected to meet and be friends with subs so it was a nice surprise :)

Am gutted I missed the play party today as I'm stuck in waiting for workmen but I'm off to a Femdomme Club tonight so I get my fix whoohoo!
2/11/2009 8:20:27 AM
I just scrolled through my profile and came to my hard limits which I noticed said public play which is highly and ironic seeing that I have been doing exactly that rofl

Time to amend my profile it seems!
2/8/2009 3:27:46 PM
Had a great time at my second play party, even tried a violet wand on myself..briefly! lol
Lovely mix of people, had a good work out flogging, caning and spanking subs, even  had my first woman sub up on the cross which was fantastic.

Enjoyed watching all the ropework and had a go at doing some basic knots but need far more practice I think!


Looking forward to the mummification workshop next month and to the wax play.
2/7/2009 5:01:31 AM
I want this
http://www.fairygothmother.co.uk/ct-01.htm and I want this http://www.fairygothmother.co.uk/70-r21sl.htm.  I just need to lose some weight first to feel comfortable in them.

Am off to another play party tonight, am so looking forward to it, am taking along my leg spreader bar and my bag of pervertables tonight, lots of opportunities for cbt!
2/4/2009 9:50:34 AM
I had the most fantastic time today at my first play party.  Everyone was so friendly and helpful, with somany wonderful toys and subs to choose from and play with.

a day to delight a domme's heart lol
2/2/2009 2:31:31 AM
Whoohoo it's snowing, I think I am going to go and make a snowman outside.  Woke up dead grumpy after very little sleep but now fortified by coffee and a banana I'm feeling more cheery and want to go out and play.!!

Boohoo to the fact that I might not get to the munch tonight though cos of the snow!
1/23/2009 7:33:41 AM
Trying to organise an 18th birthday party is proving quite stressful especially when I have another rotten cold pah!
1/14/2009 8:23:56 AM
Why are flights to North Cyprus so expensive grrrrr*pout*
1/8/2009 5:44:57 AM
I was very disappointed to not be able to attend a local play party yesterday, after my son fell ill. After the success of my first munch I was all revved up and ready to go, albeit slightly unsure of what I would find there.

Now I will have to wait a whole month to find out :(

On a positive note my phone bill came and was only £30 over what I had expected so yay for that!

Found yet another lovely website with fetish boots on at quite a reasonable price, and spent a good hour drooling and making a list as long as my arm lol

If only bills didn't have to be paid!

Still wishing I had access to TheEnglishMansion.com again, what a fabulous site that is!
1/5/2009 4:28:00 PM
YAY!!!!

I went to my first munch meeting tonight and had the BEST time, everyone was so welcoming and friendly and I had a right laugh.

Thank you to everyone who was so nice to me and made me feel so comfortable xx
1/5/2009 12:49:34 AM
I'm going to my first munch tonight whoohoo
12/29/2008 10:21:44 AM
Have joined my local munch group, and am now really excited but dead scared about going along on their next night out.  Wish me luck xx
12/28/2008 8:39:18 AM
www.clubtwisted.co.uk looks interesting.  I might pop along in February.
12/25/2008 7:27:04 AM
Happy Christmas to everyone who I have spoken to on here xx

Guitar Hero world tour rocks!!
12/23/2008 4:53:51 PM
I had my curry, no cava but lots of G and T!

12/18/2008 8:34:36 AM
I want a curry and a glass of cava!
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