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ButterflyP

Kink, to me is not a lifestyle, it's sex, just that - if you're a 'Master', 'UberLord' or whatever, and want to control what I eat for breakfast and when I sleep, we won't be compatible. I'm not some little slave girl who will purr and lick your boots clean when you walk through the door everyday; so don't waste your time (or mine) messaging me if that's what you seek. I'm a normal, real woman. I like to read books, watch movies, cook and drink coffee/gin with my friends (depending on the time of day or occasion). I get deeply 'religious' feelings when walking in the fresh air, on a sunny day listening to music on my iPod - those moments are lush. I'm also a student, and will be for a another few years at least (if all goes to plan). Right now I'm living in Dundee, Scotland. It's nice here and I have met many wonderful people whom I will consider friends for life. I'm originally from Swansea, South Wales, and go home regularly - well, every 6 months (ish)! I like people who can talk, have brains and a sense of humour. I am regularly called a harsh bitch by people who know me, they also know that I am a genuine, honest and caring person. When it comes to D/s play I mostly top; I like rope, hitty things, strap ons and hearing grown men whimper. I am quite sadistic, a look of fear is alluring, and leaving marks is satisfying. I rarely sub, I'm quite picky - being that I can be quite an extreme masochist the level of trust that needs to be there is important. I do find being dominated quite sexual, there isn't much which is more erotic than a stern masculine voice and a fist in my hair. I'm not here seeking anything particularly, I am quite content as I am. The ideal, if anyone could change my mind on my chosen singleness, would be someone as flexible as me. Someone who didn't want to run my life (or I theirs), but wanted to share it as equals, with the added bonus of a varied, hot, kinky sex life.