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Greetings, ? I'm in kink for the past few years. A very private Sensual Domme with a streak for the creative and the theatrical. An attached, busy entrepreneur in my Vanilla life, I fight for my passion for BDSM while maintaining discretion and safety. Please respect that. My list of kinks is long and diverse, but my most burning, relentless, deep and unquenchable kink is Mental BSDM: it'll set my powers on fire, shoot my creativity to the moon and back, ignite my groins, bring unimaginable scenes to life and will shape me into the best Domme I can be for you. ? I find the power of our mind to be the ultimate kink: limitless, inhibitions breaker, dissolving conditioning, pursuing fantasies. All we need to do is to decide to go beyond our limits, and follow it through. I add a handful of passion for all things sex, a desire for learning and self improvement, intelligence, good technique with kink, self awareness and guidance, and you can sail with me to those foreign shores.. ? Following experiences and variations of D/s play throughout the years, I have come to realize that the right submissive for me is the one that brings a unique blend of sexy body and an intriguing, creative mind to our bond. You are mindful, mature, intelligent, sharp and an experienced submissive who seek power that come from within, power that does not rely only on the flogger, the rope, the gag to restrain, deprive or inflict pain. Its the power derived from the respect and admiration you feel for your Domme, the invisible strings of mind control she wraps around you, her ability to read through you and get to know your beauty and darkness quicker and deeper than anyone ever before, her emotional resilience, her imagination that does not stop surprising you, her ability to shape you and train you to please her, her incredible sexuality and her commitment for making this journey utterly fulfilling for both. ? It is also the energy, the body pose, the words she chooses, the intonation, her visuals, the ambiance she creates, it is the way she?pronounces?the word 'Boi' that sends shiver down your spine. It is a way she enters?your?brain to perve at all?the dark corners and captures?your?soul, that leaves you at awe. Willing, accepting, awaiting her next instruction.. ? My sub and I will enjoy continuity and ?growth. I?exercise?my need for power?exchange?with you, practice my fetishes with you,?quench my sexual desires and enjoy a deep, trust filled connection. Your mind be will focus and be clear about our path, your heart tuned to mine and your body at my disposal to use, abuse and be pleasured by. After all, it is first and foremost my pleasure you will learn to satisfy, and I am an excellent teacher.? ? Please note I am very particular and extremely time poor. I respond only to messages that answer my criteria and tantalize my mind. Before you contemplate messaging me, please read my journal to find out who it is I seek and whether the exchange will be worth while of our time. ? With light and courage Mistress Aditi ?
1/21/2014 4:50:30 PM

Am I Looking for You??

We are all unique individuals in our rights and each and every one of us has something they can contribute with to other people's lives.?

As a mentor and a coach in my vanilla life I am fortunate to come across individuals from all walks of life, background, personalities, body shapes, interests, religions. I find something beautiful and willing in each and every one of them.?

But as a Mistress, I have clear guidelines I operate with it. If you read the below description and believe it applies to you and my work had piqued your interests, we might be ready to start our compatibility process:

Physical Attributes:

  • 35-47 yrs ladies age is flexible
  • 173cmm-188cm height, ladies no restrictions?
  • Non smokers (not even social)?
  • Men: healthy, well built and toned, ladies:?curvaceous, feminine
  • Cock min 7inch and circumcised
  • No grey hair,?light body hair or none, no facial hair, boys manicured, groomed, waxed or shaved groins?
  • Excellent stamina?
  • Meticulous?hygiene,?regularly?tested for STI, practice?safe sex?

?Marked in red are my hard limits?

Basic Personality traits?

  • Girls: sensual, experienced, mischievous, kinky, different, dark
  • You value courtesy, posses good manners and respect all that is around you
  • You are intelligent, witty, articulate and a great communicator (be good and value others skills). I do appreciate true?gentlemen?when I see one
  • You know all about the need for discretion, and you will work with me towards both needs for discretion are met
  • You are genuine, not afraid to embrace your vulnerability, you have a high level of?self?awareness?and you understand the need to be real and honest as?fundamentals?for a good D/s?relationship

Logistics

  • You live in Sydney East, or not further than a 45min drive from and you are ready to travel
  • You are available mid week evenings, and the occasional weekends, at least once a fortnight?
  • Can you host? guaranteed a star in my hall of fame...
  • Preferably single, if in a relationship you better be a good poly as a relationship is what I would want from you??

Outlook and?Goals.?Contact me if:

  • You are an experienced submissive looking for a long term D/s?relationship with a Domme - my primarily ive in here
  • You are a service oriented submissive who is interested in service at BDSM parties
  • You are an experienced,?exhibitionist?submissive who wishes to partner with me in public play events
  • You are a lady submissive who seek a mentor, a protector, a Domme, a lover
  • You are a sub/ sub bi couple looking for a Domme to form a long term trio?relationship
  • A local lady/ man who can host and are interested?in becoming my regular toy

Please?note I will reply only to detailed messages referring to the above and include face and full nude photos

Thank you for your effort in advance. I put energy and thinking into my BDSM, wouldn't want you any other way

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Mistress Aditi

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1/21/2014 1:11:01 PM
20 ways to lose me or never to have me: 1. Being insincere, dishonest, cliched, abbreviated, judgmental 2. Not showing respect at all times 3. Being lazy in your thinking and replies 4. Having bad grammar and punctuation and not being able to creat a complete, paragraph 5. Not responding ASAP (Aka within 24hours) 6. Being more interested in your fetishes then mine 7. Not making sure I know I matter and is a priority to you, not an option 8. Not devoting yourself to making my life enhanced by having you as my pet 9. Trying to top from the bottom 10. Not being appreciative and grateful that I have chosen you 11. Mistaking politeness for weakness 12. Assuming I will be like your last Mistress 13. Being lazy with appearance and not following dress code 14. Not trimming your pubes, doing your toe & finger nails, flossing & brushing your your teeth and properly douching your arse before a session 15. Being uncommunicative before, during or after a session 16. Making assumptions, pre conceptions, generalization 17. If Mistress says no whites, no jeans, no runners, no biky pants, no t shirts, no thongs, you better listen and follow 18. Try canceling on her more than once, you'll be crossed out from the books faster the speed of light 19. Thinking you're the only sub that can give her what she needs and wants and even worse, tell her that 20. Saying you want a relationship when in fact you want a fetish delivery system to push you as far as she can then you move on to the next system