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We just spent 3 days with a boi that I was involved with 3 years ago. It was wonderful. It is what we are looking for. A fun, playful, dedicated, employed, joyful boi who is sexy and  fun.
 
-Will you sit at our feet during the evening, anticipating what you can do to serve?
-Do you desire to be teased, poked, spanked, and whipped?
-Are you employed, emotionally stable, able to love and be loved?
-Are you sexual, kinky, naughty and flirtatious?


Butch-Femme couple looking for a slave. You must be employable, well-groomed, and have an intense desire to serve. Must be willing to relocate.

This is not something that will happen in a week. We will talk online and/or on the phone for as long as any of us feel that it is needed.

In case it is not obvious, no men. Pre or post-op.

We both have been in the leatherlife for a long time and know what we are looking for.

Boi's and girls welcome.

We have pictures and references. We are a truly lifestyle couple who is serious about finding the right person to add to our household.


7/18/2009 5:32:19 PM
Last week, we went to Reno to see a boi whom I (Jai) had been involved with before. It was a wonderful time. The three of us had wonderful chemistry. I think we laughed so hard the people in the hotel got a bit pissy. She lives on the east coast and though we would love her to be here, that is not in either of our paths at this time. Life is a very long time and it is awesome when people whom you love cross into our lives over and over again. 

On another note, we once again are actively seeking a boi or girl to come into our house and serve. Location isn't an issue,  it is more an openness to learn and desire to become a slave of value.
7/20/2008 12:44:53 PM
Many people have asked about what we as a Butch - Femme Dominant couple seek in a slave. While there are many documents that are in our House, I believe the core of what most slaves want to know is "Will I be happy?" In order to answer that base human need, please read the following document.

Lessons for Happiness in Slavery
This document sets forth governance for the slaves within the HMSC House.

Scientific data tells Us that the most important thing for happiness, in slavery or not, is not from having many items, but from having healthy values. One such poll conducted in 2002 by Arther Brooks in the book "Gross National Happiness" caused Me write Lessons for Happiness in Slavery.

Without healthy values, a slaves job and service will bring them soulless toil and joyless riches. To an unhappy slave, edcuation has no value, there is no reason to strive for perfection in slavery, nor any way to find inner peace with one's life.

The House of MSC wants slaves to be happy. Your Owners feel accountable for making sure that a slave is comfortable and happy within their confines. The House believes there are five indicators of happiness. It is the goal for each servant in the HMSC to lead a life with the following guidelines.

1. Faith
Policy - Happiness is found through Faith

Warrant:
85% of Americans indentify with a religion. Over a third of these same people attend some sort of Church to worship. Statistics for this have changed little through the years. People that held true to a fait they believed are 1/3 more likely to be optimistic and happy about their future.

Goal:
Every slave must practice faith. Measuring religious practice may come in the form of writings, attendance in a place of worship, or making an alter for pagan practices within the confines of the slaves room.

2. Work
Policy - Happiness is found through Work

Warrant:
Out of 1,000 people polled, 89% of Americans said they are happy in the jobs they held. Less than 1/3 of these respondents felt if they won the lottery they would quit their jobs. The percentages are the same for people in high paying jobs, low paying jobs, jobs with college degrees, or jobs without college degrees.

Goal:
Every slave must work. Work gives a slave or servant the path to provide personal self-esteem for the slave. Personal self-esteem and self-worth is paramount for a slave's happiness in service.

3. House
Policy - Slaves must be free of personal baggage to form a Union with the Owners of the House.

Warrent:
42% of married Americans said they were happy in their union in polls done in 2002. This percentage is compared to 23% of people who had never been married and stated that they were happy. Marriage isn't just associated with happiness, the common response was that it brings happiness. For some, this happiness wore off in a few years, in others, it has lasted a lifetime.

Goal:
Owners do not marry slaves. Every slave must feel as if they are United in this House. A Unity candle is often offered during a marriage ceremony of vanilla partners. In that same light, in the ceremony to enter the House a slave will light a Union candle to Honor her or his place in HMSC. All slaves and servants must feel that entering into this House is a reverent honor, with higher and loftier goals than that of a simple union of marriage.

4. Charity
Policy - Slaves must exercise some form of Charity.

Warrent:
It is known that "money does not buy happiness." There is clear and convincing evidence that gifts to charitable organizations, or other worthy causes bring substantial life satisfaction to the giver. People who give to charities are 43% more likely to enjoy a life of happiness.

Goal:
All slaves and servants must find a charity that they are actively pursuing through giving. It does not matter what type of charity the servant chooses, only that a servant choose a charity and then work towards its goal. DOnation of blood is an especially personal type of giving and is also percieved as charitable works.

5. Freedom
Policy - A slaves objectives should incorporate the ideas of Freedom through Slavery.

Warrent:
In our national struggle for Independence, American Founders listed the rights of liberty along with the pursuit of happiness. People who feel personally free in their rights to decide what makes them happy are far more likely to feel genuine happiness than those who do not feel personal freedoms. Moral freedom, with constraints on behavors, have often been linked to those who are very happy with their lives.

Goal:
Moral values are critical to HMSC. It is a personal freedom to choose a life of slavery or serventry. Every slave should hold to her or his breast the freedoms to choose slavery as her or his right to personal happiness. Moral choices limit constraints on behaviors. There will be limits on choices for the slave as part of adhearing to the moral code in HMSC.

Femme Domme



5/17/2008 6:50:37 PM
The scene here in Vegas isnt nearly as "sinful" as most would believe Las Vegas to be.   Today We did a Decorative Cutting class at the local dungeon.  It went very well.  I cut a bear on the back shoulder of Jai.  It looked so nice that I patted a paper towel over it and got a nice blood print from it.

Ms. Moriah
The Femme of ButchFemDomCpl
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 Age: 53
 New York, New York