First and foremost I am not a button, do not push me.
Don’t assume you can change me or you have something to offer me or pretend to know something about me that I don’t know about myself.
If I tell you no than that means I mean no, it does not mean continue to annoy me because you think I’ll have a change of heart or mind. It won’t happen.
Men be warned if you write to me, I reserve the right not to respond for whatever reason. Period.
As my profile says I’m 26 years old, and this isn’t my first time on CollarMe.com though after a long absence I thought I would give being here another shot and see how things went. I’m a writer, not an author. The distinction between the two is this, a writer is a person who writer for the joy and the love of writing with the intent to one day be published (or not) an author is a person that has been published before or in the process of being published. Believe it or not I have had this argument with people before which is why I list it here now and simply get it out of the way. I know what I want and how I want it, and nothing changes my mind about that. I have a unique outlook on things and chances are you either won’t agree with me or you will.
What I’m looking for:
IN GENERAL
Friends - people that share similar interest as myself, trust me it get’s boring living in a small town where you feel like you’re the odd ball.
Online Roleplay - again I love to write and most scenes and scenario’s don’t bother me in the least bit, if you have an imagination that’s fantastic. Use it. This does not mean I want to cyber with you, I like the thrill of a story being told not just someone humping their keyboard.
A Mentor - Someone that can teach me more than what I already know that is patient and doesn’t try to Dominate me. Preferably female, sorry guys no offense, but it would take a man with a lot of patience and deep understanding to put up with mentoring me.
SUBMISSIVES AND SLAVES
-- Don’t write me and automatically assume I want to own you or play with you. Despite popular belief in things I want to get to know you first to make sure you know what you want and to make sure you aren’t going to flake out. Yes this has happened in the past.
-- If you like humiliation, degradation, pain, objectification, role playing ect… then feel free to write me as we already have similar interest.
-- Do no expect someone who is going to be lovey dovey with you, that isn’t me. I have my moments but for the most part it isn’t going to happen.
DISCLAIMER: You get the general idea of I know what I want out of life and for my life. Here’s the kicker I’ve been called a bitch on more than one occasion and I suppose in a way it might be true. I don’t sugar coat things to make you feel better and I’m going to tell you how it is, I see no reason to lie to someone about something or to avoid telling them what’s on my mind. If friend that’s honest and will be there for you than you can find one here, if you want someone to lie to you look else where. If you are seeking a Mistress or an Owner that will treat you with love and respect, look elsewhere. Respect must be earned and is not handed out to people solely on the basis of they have a pretty face or say nice things. I am a hard person to get to know at times so don’t expect me to open up to you right away (yes I have had this problem before in the past as well).
Aside from that feel free to write me and share interest, talk, or anything else that might be on your mind. If I don’t answer than either I didn’t want to or I haven’t been online to check my messages yet.
