Don't worry, I really am a woman, I'm just super cautious (why I blur out the background and block out my face). I'll try to post more photos so people will stop being so silly.

I don't like to force things to happen, and I very much believe in being friends first, meeting up and getting to know eachother first. Also, please don't take it personally if I seem a bit cautious, I'll just be blunt because people are silly: I met my last dom online, it wasn't a healthy relationship and I don't want to go through that again- so don't try to tell me that you "would never do anything like that." Honestly, I don't want to hear it, I want to -see- that you wouldn't do that. I have my "ground rules" for many reasons a few are:

- for safety

- to practice not being "too submissive" as my friends have told me

- to narrow down people that try to contact me, so that their time isn't wasted when they discover that it wouldn't work out.

- I'm a 21 year old woman, do I really need a reason to try to be safe? I mean, I want to meet up with people, shouldn't I try to feel as comfortable as possible and try not to worry about being harmed in the process?