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Our greatest fear is not that we are inadequate,
Our greatest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

BDSM for me is more of a lifestyle than just something that you use to spice up your sex life . I am a dom by nature but still pretty naive at that and learning about the lifestyle . I am here for nice conversations about the lifestyle.
You could help me or i could help you.
Lets end each others curiosities.
Their is fine line between dominance and abuse. The sad part is many fail to understand that.
A sub is not someone for you to use
She is someone you adore and take full responsibility of.
You take care of her.
She does not submit cause she is weak ,broken or disturbed she does cause she is strong enough to show who she truly is.
By making someone a sub you give her freedom to let go not bound her in chains .
If you cant do that you shouldnt be a dom
Most important thing in a DS relationship - trust
I just realized by now I havent described myself at all.
Well thats the difficult part. I Never know how to describe myself
So i asked one of my subs to describe me
here it goes -
You are a gentle and Caring dom
Youre a really kind human being
Your heart dominates and thats what makes you so special
You try to be all dom
But i also see a naughty boy
Who loves to act crazy and kiddish
You are actually full of love and you wanna go give it to people
Whoever is your sub , you take them seriously
Love them with all your heart and genuinely care for them
You are actually a very patient guy

My vanilla self
A football fanatic
Fifa lover
Love watching movies and tv shows
Music is the food for my soul
More of a lake person
Rather than a club

Ps we parted ways
She Wanted someone more practical p

My BDSM test results Results from bdsmtest.org
100 Owner
100 Rigger
100 Sadist
100 MasterMistress
100 DaddyMommy
98 Dominant
92 Degrader
90 Ageplayer
70 Experimentalist
66 Non-monogamist
64 Primal (Hunter)
60 Exhibitionist
57 Voyeur
48 Switch
43 Vanilla
Muse24
 
 Age: 40
 Tacoma, Washington