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After coming out of the worst possible relationship that took years of my life due to the monumental lies that were told to me, I've come to rely on the instincts that I had ignored due to loneliness and loyalty on my part. Honesty is now a major part of my relationship demands. Obviously I have some trust issues now due to the past insanity's that took advantage of my trust and caring ( yes, love, I'm not ashamed to say it was love). It has caused me to love slow now...slow but deeply (paraphrasing dead can dance). Why say these personal things here? Honesty and an unbowed need to continue in the lifestyle despite the abuses (yes Doms CAN be abused as surely as submissives) that were endured. Hopefully this will be with a woman that understands submission is NOT a tool to get what you want but a good and natural desire to be explored and grown with an amorous paramour, just as it is MY NEED to have my Dominant desires and instincts to be supported and appreciated, even in some of my darkest hours. Ones love should never be used as leverage or a weapon or a means of blackmail. |
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