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I am interested in exploring my Dom side, this means in way of my sexuality not personality.

I have a habit in clubs of sporadically asking sub women if they have had permission to for instance take out the ball gag before they sparked up a cigarette, although its not innapropriate I know when its ok or not!

There has always been this side to me although its not my entirety, yet something I would like to explore.

What I would like to get out of this is to get pleasure out of satisfying a submissive woman by Dominating her, to see how she is/acts in this scenario, to recognise psychological patterns and triggers whithin her in order to capitalize on these to get into a very pleasurable experience!

yet of course whithin the context of roleplay I am more than open to the dynamic in which its not about your satisfaction. However I never really saw anything like that as I prefer to see it as a 2 way street. I am good at contextualizing acts for it to be real while not losing track of actual reality!

I like to hear from a submissive women what her sexuality entails, to learn what turns her on and then act it out.

My penchant at the moment and something I have done is bondage. One thing I like to do is tie a woman up so that she just about has a chance to escape then sit and watch her as she tries to get out. When she gets to the point just before she is out I like to casually re-tie her with little effort. Like a kind of psychological game where I step in just at the right point so that my effort is minimal to make the submissive feel powerless.

Im not just about the above though, it wouldnt work otherwise. We would have to get on as people too obviously! I am not specifically looking for a relationship at the moment, mostly discovery and experimentation but if it goes that way then why not.
yourslave009
 
 Age: 35
 Salem, Michigan