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I am part of SLOLOCK Safety and Greeting team so feel free to message me any questions or concerns you may have!
===About Me===
I am a very direct individual, 26 years old and have been involved in the BDSM community since i was 19. It has been an on and off again relationship due to my personal life and the constant traveling I've done through the years. The best way to describe myself would be very direct. I've always been to the point and I'm certainly not one to beat around the bushes when it comes to telling you what I'm thinking and how i feel about something. I love to have well informed and educated conversations but like all guys i do enjoy having a simple down to earth conversation with many jokes. My position in the BDSM would definitely be among Dom and Master as i have a strong desire and need to be in control of every situation. I hold myself to a standard as well as my partner to a standard, sometimes that standard can be wavering to accommodate their level of comfort in the relationship. I am a experienced Master, and Dominant however the lifestyle is ever evolving which means it contain a lifetime of opportunity to learn and grow. I stress safety when it comes the BDSM community due to the reality of the fact that you NEVER know who is on the other side of the computer until you have the opportunity to meet them, which is why i attend Munches and other events, I will always openly express my interest for safety between both parties.
===Hobbies===
I absolutely love to cook, and yes i am very good at it. I also enjoy fishing, reading, pushing limits, tinkering with gadgets and exploring my way through the BDSM world.
===Why?===
Honestly?, Well mostly because I've always been infatuated with the aspect of being in control. I love what the BDSM community has to offer, from the keep, to the guidelines and rules that have been established through years and years of experience. Yes, it is a world developed around kink, control, trust, and devotion to one another, but it also allows you to be yourself and lets others see you for the person you are.
===Want to know me?===
Ask!!!!, Yes i may look like a bit of a grumpy ass, however I'm a very nice guy who loves to get involved. I love to meet new people, and i certainly love to reach out and help others meet new people. After all, this is what the BDSM/Kink community is about, exploring your fetishes and fantasy's.
===Fun Time?===
I love to play, however i will only play in an environment that is safe and sound... HOWEVER, that does not mean I'm not willing to be a little risque if both sides agree to it, and i have performed publicly on several occasions before, i am not a particularly shy person, and i tend to be very open. Just expect that i love to be in control. I love to play mind games, and i love to mind fuck people. I find nothing more satisfying than slowly stripping away everything a sub has, bring her to the point of being an "Object" and then helping bring them back out of that mindset and zone, I am a firm hand, and i am very direct so when i want to try something, i will definitely inquire, when i want you to do something i will definitely tell you, the same applies to me. Yes, i can play rough, and i can play soft..., I have left bruises (albeit unintentional/intentional based on my partner.) but i will never involve myself in play that will be considered dangerous and hazardous to myself or my partner.
===Expectations===
-Obvious intelligence, look I'm not the smartest person alive but I'm not dumb... If you cant hold a conversation then why are we talking?
-Maturity, This is important as our relationships are formed based on Trust, commitment, safety, and maturity. If you are acting like a child then i will stop play, simple as that.
-Responsible, Only because i feel being responsible is important...
-STD Free, This goes without saying....
-Able to take care of yourself..., Look we're all grown ass adults, we don't need to tell one another what to do to properly take care of them... I'm not here to babysit you, and i don't expect you to babysit me.
-Safety..., Know your limits... as well as make it clear what they are, This enables us to have a fun, comfortable and safe play and prevents the potential of crossing boundaries.... However i will attempt to push your limits... but if i tread into a territory that you are entirely uncomfortable with please inform me.
Also...., Please don't waste my time..., I have no interest in wasting yours, and i certainly hope you'd be considerate enough to not waste mine.
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