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How very very sad to be blocked by someone u thought was a friend, but not before i heard all the insults his brain could come up with, and all because i had the nerve to tell him he did not have the right to demand anything from me. It does make you wonder about people at times :-( so the moral of this sad tale is, never spit your dummy out of your oh so domly pram, it serves no purpose |
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i do hope E/everyone had a good bank holiday Monday :-) |
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The best way to find Y/yourself is to lose Y/yourself in the service of others :-) |
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The prettiest smiles hide the deepest secrets.
The prettiest eyes have cried the most tears.
But the kindest hearts have felt the most pain. |
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Y/you are free to choose,
BUT Y/you are not free from the consequence of Y/your choice :-) |
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Love didnt hurt Y/you
Someone that didnt know how to love hurt Y/you
Never confuse the two :-) |
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Is it just my imagination or is honesty and integrity a thing of the past within this lifestyle?
50 Shades certainly didnt help the situation.
BUT how is a sub or a Dom supposed to correct issues if they didnt know there was one to begin with?
It makes little sense to me *sigh* communication truly is the answer :-) |
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i have just read an interesting article on do real men cry, i happen to think the strongest of men do cry yes, maybe they are just choosy who sees them cry :-)
i dont look on tears as a sign of weakness but more a sign of strength |
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Wellllllllllll its almost Christmas in the UK so i want to wish E/everyone a very very Happy Christmas, i do so hope all Your wishes come true this Christmas xx |
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Would someone please explain to me why an American dim dom would send me hateful male then block me so i could not reply?it seems a little child like for a 52 yr old man *sigh* |
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lol i generally dont name and shame but this person is classic, it must be nice to be from Bradford and perfect, shame on you boywhiplash
, shame you felt the need to block me so you couldnt see my reply :-) |
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Being home is orgasmic, lol i dont even mind the rain,being in Yorkshire for 5 days was wonderful,back down south now for the remaining time i am here, but then those that know me know i dont care where i am as long as its home in England, enjoy Your baNnk holiday E/everone, please staY Safe x
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Well i fly home early evening today, i am so excited it will be a long flight, but wel worth it.
See You in England xx |
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Well i just got some sad news from England, but the good news (for me) is i should be home next week sometime, its bitter sweet though :-( |
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Never cry because its over, smile because it happened. |
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At least once in life Y/you are given a chance to walk on a path that will open a door to a completely new and magical world.
But a chance like this will not always be there, begging to be grabbed.
The golden opportunities come and go. it is Y/your job to recognize them, to grab them and use them in Y/your best interest.
Most of the time, the greatest chance lies beneath a challenging situation. Its not the destination O/one should worry about, but rather the journey. |
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i have fed mouths that have talked about me.
i Have wiped tears from the faces that have caused mine.
i Have picked up people who have in some way or another, tried to bring me down.
i Have done favours for people who can do NOTHING for me.
i Have been there for people who have not been there for me.
CRAZY? perhaps BUT i will not loose myself in hatred of others.
i Shall continue to be me because, i am who i am and its my nature.
Life sometimes is not easy but even through all the bs i shall still be here, being me :-) |
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Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
Love the people who treat Y/you well, but have compassion for the O/ones who dont |
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...that submissive you just topped is a complex woman.
She is perhaps married, with three children, perhaps even grandchildren, finding herself constantly required to keep 5 balls in the air. She is in control at all times, because she has to be, until those delicious few hours where you put a collar onto her and let her go to a different place. She melts into the freedom of no responsibilities other than to obey. That is her reward. Then when you reward her further, with pleasure, it makes a sweet situation even sweeter.
...that girl you just kissed on the forehead, is assuredly an incredibly strong woman.
She is perhaps a professional who runs a tight ship at work. She likely manages people and things. She is on task and she is on time. She has been fighting her entire life for the same recognition you take for granted. She is mostly in control, she likes it that way, except when you allow her to step away from it all. She willingly hands over the reigns, for you to make decisions, good and bad, and enjoys knowing you will take care of her.
...that girl you just hurt, is not a broken flower, but one in full bloom.
She is likely educated, strong willed and has given a lot of thought to the power exchange taking place. This is not a coincidence, these are thoughts she has been questioning her entire life. She feels power, in temporarily handing it over. She is not the fractured soul you see hanging on a cross, she is stoic and whole and gathering strength with every lashing. She allows you to give her these things. Yes, she allows you. Never forget that.
...that girl you just wrapped up in a blanket and kissed on the head, is thankful, even though she cannot admit it just yet.
She is still figuring all this out, just like you. She is reconciling her deviation from the social contract with her deep seeded need to trust someone else, with her body and mind. She is reminding herself that she never lost control, she just gave it away, to you, for an agreed upon period. She is quietly rebuilding that shell that she will need to get through each day.
....And when she smiles at you afterwards, quietly, whether she says thank you or not, please know that you have given her a gift. Each time she disrobes for you, bares herself to you and gives herself to you....she puts herself back together in stronger and more resilient ways.
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i wish i could take credit for these words but i cant, but they certainly ring true with me
There are two kinds of strengths, the strength to control and lead, and the strength to
yield and follow.
There are two kinds of power, the power to strip another's soul bare, and the power to stand naked. |
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Happy St.George's day to A/all who celebrate :-) |
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Gosh the duminants are out in force today, you say your not interested and what follows is nothing but abuse? 50 shades did not do the real people on here any favours. |
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Do not waste words on people who deserve Y/your silence.
Sometimes the most powerful thing Y/you can say is NOTHING at all :-) |
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Happy St.Davids day E/everyone :-) |
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One does have to laugh at some of the messages one gets on here, so go ahead and demand i answer your questions just because you say your a dominant, those who know me know i call those people duminants, so go right on and invalidate me and assume you know what your on about, its good for a laugh and it will certainly make me want to answer you lol NOT.
A command of the English language is required here, especially when Your
English. Rant over until the next duminant demands something from me :-) i suppose i sh0uld name and shame but that really is not my style :-) |
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The song "i get by with a little help from my friends" comes to mind, yesterday was a fabulous day i love hearing from friends and the phone certainly rang a lot yesterday, i always smile when it rings and i know its someone from blighty, so tY K for the lovely catch up, i love You cause Your worth loving, even if Your a sadistic man , i know this makes You chuckle.
i still find it strange when the phone rings and its someone who says "you ok lovie" you were on my mind, but goes to show that those your close to know when you need a phone call and a kind word or two.
so tY my kinky friends for making me laugh/smile xx |
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Y/you cant change how people treat Y/you or what they say about Y/you.
All Y/you can do is change the way Y/you react to it :-) |
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Sometimes its good to remember that people make time for who they want to make time for. People text, RING, and reply to people they want to talk to.
Never believe A/anyone who says they are too busy. If they wanted to be around Y/you they would.
Hard lesson to learn sometimes, but learn it W/we must. |
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Happy New Year E/everyone, may it be happy healthy and prosperous for A/all, and i do so hope Y/your wishes and dreams come true xx |
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Why do folk add you to their admirers list but never speak/ message?, seems a little strange to me, i do so hope they are not waiting for me to message them...lol they will have a bloody long wait *grins* |
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INSULTS
Are the last resort of insecure people with a crumbling position
trying to appear confident :-) |
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A REAL MAN chooses to honour, love, respect and be faithful to one woman :-) |
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i think most people understand when something happens and You cant do what You say Your going to do, but when it happens more than once then i think they stand a chance of loosing that persons trust, once trust is gone not much point in going on is there? |
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Humility:-)
"The first test of a truly great man is His humility i dont mean doubt of His powers or hesitation in speaking His opinion, but merely an understanding of the relationship of what He can say and what He can do"
---- John Ruskin |
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lol another mini Rant, when requesting i contact DommeMaggie for You at least show enough manners to say please, when this was pointed out to this person, his reply was,"the original email did have please in it, but i thought i sounded like a sub so took it out."
Since when has saying please and thank you become a sub trait? makes you wonder *grins* |
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Yesterday i asked a Dom (who had sent me mail) a question, the question went unanswered, so this morning when he sent me more mail i asked if he would please answer my slave/sub ? which was, is there a difference in your mind between sub and slave, his reply was "not really they both serve" goodness me i am so glad i did not have any tea in my mouth at the time, it would have been a dreadful waste of tea *grins* |
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To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering pills to the dead :-) |
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Oh goodness one does have to laugh at dim doms who call subs names, so yes i will eff off Mr.Oh so domly one who loves to call me names and then block me so i cannot respond, not that i would have been rude but still, so Mr. lonely in florida, go on to the next one and behave in a deplorable way, wonder if this ever works for You lol. Rant over, so glad i took the high road |
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Just because i say nothing, it does not mean i have nothing to say, perhaps my words are just for..... You silly Dom :-) |
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Please please do NOT send me a chat request especially if You have not read my full profile or sent an email, You will be rejected every time tY |
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who is worthy? clearly not me another so called Daddy Dom, spews a mail full of hate then blocks me how mature is that? |
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Well You have to laugh at some of the mail You get on CS, i have never before reported anyone but today was the exception to that rule, lol it ended with the Daddy telling me to get my (ass) back where i belong, this was after i turned his not so polite request down.
i must say i did laugh as he was an older Daddy and should have known better, i also got a lovely email from one way way way too young but it was written with so much maturity i had to smile, i should send the young one to teach the Daddy Dom some manners lol. |
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Finally after 3 yrs i am able to get on this profile, tyvm Admin |
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Well thank God its a new weeks perhaps i will be able to get through this one without experiencing an earthquake and a hurricane *s* |
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obama finally declared a state of emergency or the state of NC now its sit and wait for the bloody hurricane to hit *sigh* |
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Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.
Thank you T. S. Eliot |
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i might not be someones first choice, but i am a great choice.
i might not be rich but i am valuable.
i dont pretend to be someone i am not, because i am good at being me :-)
i might not be proud of some choices i made in the past, but i am proud of who i am today. i may not be perfect but then i dont need to be perfect.
Take me as i am or watch me walk away :-) |
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i have said this many times before but it needs to be said again i think :- never ever make anyone a priority who views you only as an option *s* |
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FYI i dont accept chat requests from those who have not taken the time to read my profile or sent mail, in fact i dont accept them very often at all. So if You dont wish to feel slighted then dont send one as it will more than likely be rejected *s* |
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Going to a funeral for a 12 yr old and a 19 yr old certainly puts you in touch with your own mortality :-( |
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One has to laugh at people who when confronted with someone with a brain and a mouth delete your mail and then block you.
Dom's and Dommes complain about this all the time, not that i am complaining, i actually find it rather amusing
Is a Dom who cant control his temper really a Dom or simply another kinkster to roam these halls? *chuckles* Makes you wonder at the mentality/stability of some :-)
Your right C just another dim dom or as i say duminant lol |
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Well just back from a wonderful holiday, and its nice to go away but nice to come back to sleep in ones own bed again too. |
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What a fabulous birthday i have had, thanks E/everyone who sent me messages i do so appreciate them xx |
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Medical definition between guts and balls:-
There is a medical distinction between guts and balls.
W/we have A/all heard about people having guts and balls,
But do Y/you really know the difference between them?
In an effort to keep Y/you informed, here are the definitions.
Guts- Is arriving home late after a night out with the guys, being met by Your wife with a broom and asking are you still cleaning or flying somewhere?
Balls- is coming home late after a night out with the guys, smelling of cheap perfume and beer, with lipstick on Your collar, slapping Your wife on the arse and having the balls to say "your next chubby"
i do hope this clears up any confusion You might have on the definitions.
Medically speaking there is NO difference in the outcome.
They both result in a fate worse than death |
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Do not believe in anything simply because you have heard it.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is spoken and rumored by many.
Do not believe in anything simply because it is found written in Y/ your religious books.
Do not believe in anything merely on the authority of Y/your teachers and elders.
Do not believe in traditions because they have been handed down for many generations. But after observation and analysis, when Y/you find that anything agrees with reason and is conducive to the good and benefit of O/ one and A/all, then accept it and live up to it. ~Buddha |
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i think E/everyone should be careful wot they wish for.
i always thought i knew exactly what i needed in a Dom lol seems i was wrong, i always thought i needed a loving Dom which some might say is an oxymoron.
Well it would seem thats not what i need after all, i need someone with a firmer hand who knows exactly how to control me.
This btw is no easy task *chuckles* |
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What is a Dom?
Being a Dom/Domme may have its priveledges, but it also has its responsibilities.
Those who demand priveledges without being willing to take on the responsibilities,
are NOT Dom/Domme's, they are merely abusive. |
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Strange how the mind works sometimes, it could be a word that reminds you of how you first got into this crazy lifestyle, i was having a nan moment this morning and remembering who the first Dom i ever spoke to was, which also made me want to go and read a story (part fiction part fact) on Literotica that was written for me.
So to this wonderful friend i just want to say tY for teaching me so much and for putting up with my sub frenzy, my bratish ways but most of all for remaining my friend through all my learning experiences.
Sorry i gave You grey hairs *chuckles* As the old ad says W/we have come a long way baby, how the heck You endured the endless questions is beyond me. i would like to think i have changed a little bit from those early days :-)
tY V for being my eyes when i couldnt see, and for always allowing me to fly back to the ledge and peck on Your window.
You truly did lift me up to stand on mountains. |
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Thought of the day :-
People to weak to follow their own dreams will always find a way to discourage yours.
Never make someone a priority who see's you only as an option :-) |
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Dewi Hapus 's ddydd i fy holl ffrindiau Cymru |
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The reasons why You should value a woman over 40 :-
A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, 'What are you thinking?' She doesn't care what you think. If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it. Older women are generous with praise. They know what it's like to be unappreciated. Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40. Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart. Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off you are a jerk if you are acting like one. You don't ever have to wonder where you stand with her. Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal. For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy man making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress.
For all those men who say, 'Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?', here's an update for you. Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage. Why? Because women realize why buy an entire pig just to get a sausage.
If you know any fun fabulous feisty women over 40, pass this on!
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Well that nice little holiday did me the world of good, hope i was not missed too badly *chuckles* |
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Well its almost 2011 so i wanted to take the time to wish E/everyone a safe happy and prosperous new year. May all Y/your dreams come true in 2011, i think i shall dance like its 1999 tonight *s* |
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i do hope E/everyone's Christmas was a good one, filled with good grub and love of friends/family :-) |
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What kind of sick (so called) Dom asks a person if they enjoy licking their grand daughters? MasterBob1970 shame on you for using this site in such a manner |
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Wishing A/all who celebrate Thanksgiving a wonderful day *s* |
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Being loved deeply by someone gives you strength, whilst loving someone deeply gives you courage.
Happy thanksgiving to A/all who celebrate it. |
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Whatever you give a woman, she will make it greater. Give her sperm, she will give You a baby. Give her a house, she will give You a home. Give her groceries, she will give You a meal. Give her a smile, she will give You her heart. She multiplies & enlarges what she is given. So, if You......give her shyte, be ready to ...receive a ton... of shyte!
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thought for the day The past is history, the future a mystery,but the here and now is a gift that's why its called the present, please make sure Y/you open it with care there is no telling what delights await within this present :-)
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In my estimation incontr0l is nothing more than a player sending out mass emails, hoping that someone will respond. It also makes me wonder if this is really a female..LOL Certainly NOT a RL Dominant. Here is the letter she (?) sent to me...
{ I'm a 28 female dominant woman. I'm interested in a new slave\sub for online training (if i'm satisfied RT is optional). Read my profile and msg me back if you're interested and have a cam with your skype name.
* if you msg me back make sure your msg includes:
1.pic of face+body
2.list of toys
3. understanding that you have a cam
4. your skype or msn name }
Reading the profile it is understood that this person doesn't have the slightest clue about what is entailed to be a true to life Dominant. How disgraceful, not to mention disgusting.
People like this..create problems, and certainly agitate me
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Be who Y/you are and say what Y/you mean because T/those that matter dont care, and T/those that care dont matter *s* |
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NEVER make A/anyone a priority who sees Y/you only as an option:-) |
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Well DM i just read Your rant in fact i even went back to the one You mentioned earlier *s* Your spot on once again, big suprise there. You DO too play well*weg* BUT You dont suffer fools. May You sort the wheat from the chafe this Year. i can still hear You calling me a sam *chuckles* YES ALL men are Bastards. |
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Well if today is anything to go by this will be an awesome New Year, so to E/everyone Happy New Year may ALL Y/your dreams come true, i will certainly make mine come true :-) |
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Well if i ever had doubts about how loved i am they are now put to rest. The number of phone calls email and im's tell me i am loved thank Y/you E/everyone for the outpouring of love. Merry Christmas to each and every O/one of Y/you, may the warmth of the season fill Y/your hearts and homes with happiness xx |
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OK, notice being under the protection of DommeMaggie does not make me bi nor does it mean she is my Mistress or i serve Her, it means that i am sick to death of all the players on here and sometimes i cannot be objective. The people who know and love me real time know who and what i am about and if you ask them they will tell you as they are honest lifestylers, not kinksters, or hedonists but honest to goodness real people. Being a submissive does not mean that i am going to drop my knickers and show You my bits, nor does it mean You can bully me into submission, its a precious gift and should be treated that way. |
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Would S/someone please explain to me why some read a journal entry and then feel the need to invalidate it with mail?
lol your polite and answer the mail the Duminant sends more mail and then when one responds they delete it unread?
Opinions really are like arseholes E/everyone has one.
Funny as his profile says one should have an open mind.
Perhaps he hates the fact that i am a woman and taller, who knows?
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God bless George Carlin for bringing U/us so much laughter. May he rest in peace:-
Isn't it amazing that George Carlin - comedian of the 70's and 80's - could
write something so very eloquent...and so very appropriate.
A Message by George Carlin:
The paradox of our time in history is that we have taller buildings but shorter
tempers, wider Freeways , but narrower viewpoints. We spend more, but have less,
we buy more, but enjoy less. We have bigger houses and smaller families, more
convenien ces, but less time. We have more degrees but less sense, more
knowledge, but less judgment, more experts, yet more problems, more medicine, but less
wellness.
We drink too much, smoke too much, spend too recklessly, laugh too little, drive
too fast, get too angry, stay up too late, get up too tired, read too little,
watch TV too much, and pray too seldom.
We have multiplied our possessions, but reduced our values. We talk too much,
love too seldom, and hate too often.
We've learned how to make a living, but not a life. We've added years to life
not life to years. We've been all the way to the moon and back, but have trouble
crossing t he street to meet a new neighbor. We conquered outer space but not
inner space. We've done larger things, but not better things.
We've cleaned up the air, but polluted the soul. We've conquered the atom, but
not our prejudice. We write more, but learn less. We plan more, but accomplish
less. We've learned to rush, but not to wait. We build more computers to hold
more information, to produce more copies than ever, but we communicate less and less.
These are the times of fast foods and slow digestion, big men and small
character, steep profits and shallow relationships. These are the days of two
incomes but more divorce, fancier houses, but broken homes. These are days of
quick trips, disposable diapers, throwaway morality, one night stands,
overweight bodies, and pills that do everything from cheer, to quiet, to kill.
It is a time when there is much in the showroom window and nothing in the
stockroom. A time when technology can bring this letter to you, and a time wh en
you can choose either to share this insight, or to just hit delete...
Remember; spend some time with your loved ones, because they are not going to be
around forever.
Remember, say a kind word to someone who looks up to you in awe, because that
little person soon will grow up and leave your side.
Remember, to give a warm hug to the one next to you, because that is the only
treasure you can give with your heart and it doesn't cost a cent.
Remember, to say, 'I love you' to your partner and your loved ones, but most of all mean it.
A kiss and an embrace will mend hurt when it comes from deep inside of you.
Remember to hold hands and cherish the moment for someday that person will not
be there again.
Give time to love, give time to speak! And give time to share the precious
thoughts in your mind.
AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that
take our breath away.
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i heard recently that someone had made rude comments about the people of HULL on that note i have to say i spent a wonderful month in Hull and found the people to be proud and kind. i shall also say thank You to the 1 who made my stay such a wonderful experience. Also to the one in Whitby who made lunch a wonderful experience. Valiant i cant leave You out meeting You was awesome and a long time comming thank You so much for the gift each of You has given me
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looks up and smiles at the one who graced me with His company. Thank You Sir for a most enjoyable afternoon. i did wonder at some stage what those waitresse's had on under the old fashioned uniforms, lol the mind does boggle. Thank You Sir *smiles* |
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If i could only touch Your heart, maybe i could feel what Your going through.
If i could only read Your thoughts maybe then i would know what i need to do.
Somethings pulling U/us together,
Somethings stronger than W/we knew.
Its part of me its part of You reaching out for part of something new.
Loving me loving You, and i wonder if You feel it too?
i wish i knew.
If i could feel the way You feel maybe all the words would come easily,
If i could know thats in Your mind maybe theres a clue that i failed to see.
Somethings brought U/us here together
Somethings trying to break through
Its part of me part of You reaching out for part of something new.
Loving me loving You, and i wonder if You feel it too.
i wish i knew :-) |
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There will be times when i feel betrayed.
There will be hurt and there will be pain.
But, there is a fire a strength within, and
i can certainly release the anger there may have been.
There will be nights when i feel so all alone.
There will be fear Y/you think it wont go.
But there is hope a faith that is me, it holds the key it speaks the truth.
There will always be doubt and the fear.
W/we are only human and the lessons are found here.
Listen to the voices that have echoed in Y/your mind. There is a light, burning so bright. Stand still and believe that Y/you can come through.
Where there is light,there is life.
Let it shine through :-) |
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She smiles tenderly to the One who lifts her up to stand on Mtns, the One who was her eyes when she couldnt see. The One who opened her mouth when she couldnt breathe. You know who You are and how much i appreciate You. |
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