I thought long and hard about what I really need as far as the type of girl I am looking for. In the past with others that I have owned I made some mistakes, and learned a lot about myself, and the submissive midset. I do know what I really need in a slave. I understand what a real slave needs in a Master.
Foremost a girl should be very submissive, with a very strong desire to serve a real Master. This should be a driving force in her life, and a force that will take precedence over all other things.
She must have the ability to adapt to a situation that will force her to give up control of herself to another. She must be intelligent and able to understand her situation, and have the mental ability to conspire in her own slavery.
She has a good basic understanding of the Dominant/submissive relationship. She has a strong desire to put herself under the control of a strong and very Dominant Master. She has the desire and physical ability to perform the duties of a slave girl. I will stop right here and state that I am not looking for a "barbie doll", but want a girl that has had enough self respect to keep herself in decent shape. Age is not really important but desire to serve really is what matters.
I really have the need for a girl that understands the needs that a Master has, and why he wants to have a girl serve him totally without inhibition, modesty or feelings of humiliation. She is able to be creative in her service, and wants to conspire with her Master to be the best slave she can possibly be. She knows well that will mean sacrifice, and that it will take dedication. All other considerations will be secondary to her.
She understands slavery, wants that above all else, feels the need to serve deeply in her mind. Wants to form that bond that only Master and slave can form. Knows that she will reach a point where the bond will be so deep that it cannot be broken. She demands a strong strict Master that will keep her in her place, and she will settle for nothing less. She knows she needs the control to grow in her slavery, she has the desire to obey and be pleasing in all ways. She is honest, truthful, and carries this out in her everyday life. She expects this from her Master as well.
She is a machochist and admits this to herself as well as others. She wants a Master with a strong bdsm background, she understands the sadistic mind, and the reasons that a Master is driven to be strict with a girl. She expects affection, and craves the attention of her Master.
She knows in her mind that once she submits she will take her service to her Master very seriously, knows that there will be many things that are hard for her, but is able to put that aside in her desire to serve. Her desire to be pleasing will be so strong that she will expect punishment should she fail to please and be very disappointed if she is not treated in that manner. She wants to be trained as a slave in a way that will allow her have pride in her slavery.
She wants a Master that will protect her from harm and see to her well being, but understands that a strong Master is hard when it suits him to be, that he will force her to fully to submit to his wishes at all times, and will control her completely.
To be at her Masters feet, pleasing him in all ways is a driving force in her desire. She enjoys pain and pleasure in much the same way, and wants more than just what most men can give her.
She desires a lasting relationship and will take all steps to achieve that goal.
Some training is also a desirable trait, or the strong desire to be trained in the fashion that her Master desires. She wishes to be a well mannered slave and sees the desirability of discipline and protocol.
One of the most important things is that she is able to understand is that the total relationship is a melding of two minds. This is where her intelligence level is really important to me. This is really hard to explain, but in many ways is like a partnership. She has to want slavery and domination as part of her whole being, and go the extra mile to be sure she achieves that goal.
She must be able to endure much that others would find humiliating, or distasteful. She understands that she will be treated as a slave ,and has no misconceptions about this. She is well aware that she cannot turn her slavery on and off like a light switch, and that it is always to be part of her real life situation.
To get to some of the real details although this may be some restatement.
Adaptability: She can adapt to varying situations and flow well from her vanilla life to her life of service. Can clearly set these things apart in her mind, and understand which is applicable in most situations.
BDSM: She has experience in this area and understands the things that will be done to her, and has no illusions about her lifestyle in this area. She has familiarity with the aspects of bondage, discipline, and the basic tools of the dungeon.
Compatibility: She must be compatible and a comfortable companion.
Control: She desires the control of a Strong Master, knows he will control most aspects of her life. She understands she will be allowed no inhibitions in her slavery, and that she will be treated as a full slave. I have no desire to micro manage her life in regards with her career or job, just the aspects that affect her slavery.
Domination: Although this is closely allied with control, she will have a good understanding of domination and the reasons why it is important to her as well as her Master. She craves the domination of a strong Master, this is a real button for her.
Limits: She is prepared to serve without limits, knowing that her Master will keep her health and well being in mind at all times. She well understands that her Master will push her into areas that she has not ventured before.
Obedience: She is prepared to be totally obedient at all times knowing if she falters her Master will not hesitate to impose his discipline upon her in the manner of his choosing.
Loyalty: This is something any slave should have a good understanding of the importance of absolute loyalty to her Master.
Sexuality: She well understands the sexual demands that are put on a slave and is mentally prepared for the sexual side of her slavery.
There are other things I didn't write about here, rules and such but those are not important at this time. Just finding a girl that can agree with my needs and find commonality with them.
If you are reading this, and understand what I am talking about here, if it pushes buttons for you , and you truly understand, then feel free to email me and lets learn if you are what I am looking for, and if I am the type of Master you seek. No BS. No lies, games, or deceptions just honesty.
