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New rant
After chatting with a few people on this site it has come clear to me that most people that are in their 20's 30's and even 40's have no idea what they are doing in the way of respecting others ect I was taught when I first started out in this lifestyle that when you talk with a Dom/Sir/Master/Mistress/Domme ect you would always use a capital letter, and subs/slaves ect would be lower case letters, you would talk with people for some time before you thought about any kind of play, work out limits build trust ect and if you said something u stuck by it.
It would seem gone are the days where people would teach newbies the ropes on the way of doing things (this maybe the newbies fault as the ones I have come across know it all and don't think they need to learn right from wrong or it could be the oldies not passing on their wisdom).
But in all honesty I am over guys telling me they want pics of this or that after not even spending the time to get to know me these are personal pics that I feel should only be shared with my Dom/Sir/Daddy ect and not random people.
Also I hear a lot about collars really what does it mean to be collared ?? Yes it means you own someone but again it comes with time and trust built not just a bit of leather to say well that's it you do as I say no if's or but's.
This may just be me idk but it was the way I was first shown into this lifestyle and for a while there I did lose it 2
Don't like what I have 2 say then move on and find something else 2 read these are my feelings and mine alone !!! |
