Say what you mean...
And mean what you say.

Is that so hard?
Maybe it is...

I'm not looking for a 'Needy Nellie',
but rather an individual who is comfortable in their own skin, and their desire to submit.

Not looking for a mindless slave...
they require way too much time to direct their every single movement.

Not looking for a blow up sex doll...
I can buy those at the corner sex shop for $19.95, and I don't have to feed and water them, and I don't have to clean up after them.

Not looking for cyber-babe.
Where are the real ladies at?

I'm looking for that someone...
Someone special.

A real woman. With a mind of her own...
but a woman who still feels the burning desire...
to submit - both mentally as well as physically.

That someone, who does not NEED a man,
but rather she who knows, who feels that missing piece of her heart.
Can she live without it?
Yes, she can.
but, oh my...
How much more pleasurable could her life be...
When now she finds her he?

BDSM is not about the sex...its about the power exchange dynamic. The intimacy between two individuals, the compassion and the trust that brings us to an ever closer relationship - that is what BDSM is. Finding just the right balance between vanilla and kink. That can be a bit tricky... but couples can, and do pull off that balancing act every day.

Fallin in love is like jumping off a really tall building; your head says "you idiot, your gonna die", but your heart tells you,"don't worry you can fly"