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I'm at the point in my life where I would like to be in a relationship with a wonderful person. Either a local Domme or a female switch that is looking for a submissive male. (Local to me means no more than 50 miles or a 60-75 minute drive at the most.) *** IF YOU'RE NOT IN CANADA DON'T BOTHER. I WON'T DEAL WITH THE BS OF CROSSING THE BORDER ANYMORE. I DON'T HAVE THE PAPERWORK AND I'M NOT WILLING TO GO THROUGH THE EFFORT TO GET IT. ***
I don't like the Enhanced Driver's License option and I refuse to go through the expense of getting my passport done. Besides, I'm unwilling for either Border Security to search my electronic devices for Personal Privacy concerns. I'm sure they won't sign any Non-Disclosure agreements so they can search my stuff and my personal and private data won't be surrendered for search without signed NDA's.
I've been into the BDSM scene for about 12 years and if I had to have a "label" it would have to be "sub with control issues" (or a sub that likes to top given the right circumstances). I've been to several events (repeatedly and I do mean REPEATEDLY) and have observed lots of things with friends answering questions which has helped. I'm curious about both sides (Dom/Top and sub/bottom) and I have a great group of friends that are helping me to learn things at a stable pace rather than being that "kid in a candy store". I do have hard limits and right now those are NON-NEGOTIABLE. In July 2006, I enjoyed my first full scene (bottom and sub) but I'm still looking to play with people or make some new friends. I'm still learning (I don't think I'll ever stop learning) and want to make sure that I follow SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consentual) to the best of my abilities. I want to have fun but I don't want to harm anyone. Hurting is okay though. ;-)
Some of the things listed in interests I'm curious about but still haven't tried. Some aren't listed at all and I'll only share with that special someone.
Some hard limits are:
SCAT
water sports / golden showers
Humiliation
needle play (Major Hard Limit)
blood play
play piercings (nothing on me gets pierced) and I could not bring myself to pierce anyone.
Tattoos (my getting temporary ones not involving needles might be okay)
There are probably other hard limits but I just haven't found / realized them yet. After all, it's a learning process. 
Please note!
I don't trade "pix and vidz" with people. So if that's what you're looking for, look elsewhere. If you don't read my entire profile, or, read it and ignore "locally" and this note, you may get a polite message if you contact me. You may get an impolite message or you may just get reported/ignored/blocked.
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Okay... Apparently, some people are just looking to get into the country and are hitting on anyone...
For the record:
1. If you're not in the province of Ontario, in the country of Canada, please don't contact me. I have NO means NOR desire to be your way into Canada.
2. Local to me is SouthWestern Ontario area or 1 to 2 hours drive from me at the most. If it's farther from that, it would be a long distance relationship and I don't have the budget/energy/desire to maintain a long distance relationship.
3. I'm looking for a Domme not a Dom. That is to say, a FEMALE Dominant.
4. Yes, I have Polyamorous tendancies but that doesn't mean I'm looking to swing.
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I've been on here for quite a while and I've met a few nice people in chat but nothing more. I've put myself out there and even met some Dommes at local events but my timing seems to be off. They're either not looking or they've just found a submissive that they want to focus on.
I'm starting to think that maybe the problem is me or that male submissives that actively search for a Domme have a fine line to watch for before Dommes stop thinking of them AS submissive...
Either way, I think I'm taking a break from looking. I may be online for chats and out to some of the local events but that's it.
It's getting just too depressing looking for someone and not finding them.
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| Age: 22 |
| Birmingham,
United Kingdom |
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