Newcomer to the world of dominance and submission...I am an attractive, professional, gay male interested in exploring the world of dominance and submission and BSDM. No experience. Not certain whether I am submissive or dominant at this point, although I am definitely curious about the lifestyle and the pleasures and experiences I've heard decribed in this world. Where the characteristic of my core do not jump out at me, I thought I would start out exploring the submissive side of the world as I have been told many do eventually find their dominant side through submission.

I am in the learning stages of "everything" at this point. Will not engage in active scenes or participation and/or penetration in any form without knowing anyone, having spoken with him, met him, safe call arrange and recieved proper identification with references to follow if there is a mutual interest to pursue further.

I am particularly interested in workshops, classes, gateway communities and organizations for socialization with gay men exploring this world.

Would frown on being introduced to hard core BDMS at this stage of my journey, but I am interested in some experimentation, through a gateway community, with some light pain, sensation play, erotica including forced and deprived orgasm. Would prefer Gay only groups.

If you are a professional gay male, who is sincere in offering guidance without strings attached and could help me on this journey by providing me with information on reputable groups and/or literature through a friendship initially through correspondence, please contact me.

Photograph provided preferrably with one in return upon request.

Thank you.