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SADISTIC or AFFECTIONATE You can enjoy either part of me or BOTH

I am seeking BRAINS BRAINS and more BRAINS

I AM SEEKING ONE GREAT WOMAN!!!!

Do you seek an Alpha Type Male, leader, intelligent, easygoing and fun loving,

I am a bit of a sadist. I prefer the label "Erotic Sadist". Not an off the wall sadist who reveals in your pain, but an Erotic Sadist who uses the excitement YOU find in pain to fuel both of our passions.

Do you want to become a work of art? A submissive Goddess elegant within artistic sexual submission? Would you like to have the petty rules which limit your life, sexuality and ability to love in a dynamic way, stripped away and replaced with a training and life which reveal your true desires?

I am a great cook and my friends enjoy my sense of HUMOR

I look forward to your thoughts after you read this..............

"If I accept you as you are, I will make you worse; however if I treat you as though you are what you are capable of becoming, I help you become that." (~ Goethe). The world through your eyes and through mine will always be different. Distance between two hearts is not an obstacle, rather a beautiful reminder of just how true adoration can be. The essential difference between you and I, apart from your unique saunter and savoir-faire, is that I know, to the core of my being, that the only difference between "have" and "have-not," is imagination. It's a long way of learning for both of us, trying to understand giving AND receiving pain as pleasurable.

Show me your growing submissiveness while I'm teaching you.

Physical pleasure is a sensual experience no different from pure seeing or the pure sensation with which a fine fruit fills the tongue; it is a great unending experience, which is given us, a knowing of the world, the fullness and the glory of all knowing. And not our acceptance of it is bad; the bad thing is that most people misuse and squander this experience and apply it as a stimulant at the tired spots of their lives and as distraction instead of a rallying toward exalted moments. I want to get a submissive where she freely decides to be, her true self

So... be aware of what you are dreaming for - because it all might come true!

True SUBMISSION can only come from STRENGTH!

A real woman OVER 40 and UNDER 55 ( I do know rules were meant to be broken, just NOT MINE)

Please have brains a positive outlook and sense of humor.

Can you relate to this....

1. The healthy submissive is capable of, and thrives on, intense, intimate, emotionally open relationships. This is often evident in the number of nourishing, sustaining, and life affirming friendships she makes over the years.

2. The healthy submissive is a giver. She often needs help to ration herself because her impulses nearly always lead her to want to do good for others.

3. The healthy submissive is capable of intense joy, especially in the context of a sustaining relationship.

4. The healthy submissive finds significant relaxation when properly related. She is at ease in that place.

5. The healthy submissive has finely tuned interpersonal sensitivity. She is reactive to subtle shifts in the emotional tone of others.

6. The healthy submissive has a fluidity of self, a flexibility that enables her to adapt to changing circumstances.

7. The healthy submissive is playful.

8. The healthy submissive has no more than the usual cultural conflicts about her body, and its goodness and beauty.

9. The healthy submissive takes pride in her accomplishments.

10. The healthy submissive accepts herself as she is, knowing that while her culture values independence and self sufficiency, she has strong dependency needs and that there is no inherent "wrongness" about those needs.

11. The healthy submissive seeks nourishing relationships.

12. The healthy submissive, in accepting herself "as is" is tolerant of others. But neither will she allow anyone to tell her what her truth should be.

13. The healthy submissive has a reasonable self concept, aware of her difficulties as well as her strengths.

14. The healthy submissive hungers to be the object of an intense and penetrating understanding. When her nature is understood and she is held in a loving and firm frame, her devotion is almost limitless. The healthy submissive has an enormous capacity for devotion, from which springs her service.

If this describes you put "submission" in the subject line of your message to me, ALL other messages will be deleted

As I stated, I seek a woman with brains! The first thing we will discuss when we speak will be about what you are about to read. I expect half or more that read this will not understand and that will save both of us much time.

I wish you all the best in your search.

I KNOW WHAT I DESIRE!