Please do not ACCEPT, or REQUEST FRIENDSHIP unless you are open to ACTUALLY MEETING IN PERSON and possibility of LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP even marriage

Hi- Curious about everything but ONLY seeking real time, offline friendships and more...hopefully MUCH more

I am a pretty fit 6', 200 but not hung older Jewish, highly educated (and bright...I think), very kinky, romantic,funny nice, mainly Dom guy in Brooklyn. I am seeking a similar minded fit woman (any age or race) albeit kinky, and preferably Sub, Although masochists turn me on those into extreme abuse and injury should look elsewhere.

Having found out I had kidney cancer a year ago and now, having gone thru chemo and kidney removal surgery , I realized regret is one of the worst things one can look back upon and, usually and certainly in my case, it has been NOT doing things- usually sexual - rather than doing them

My desire is for a Dom/Sub kinky even taboo RELATIONSHIP with an attractive, non-obese, intelligent female...age and race mean nothing to me

Other than pain for me, open to everything and always respaspects limits but have few of my own.

Prefer ongoing and a friendship and much more if we are a great fit. but open to anything

VERY serious about meeting

Primary photo in black shirt taken early 2022.. Photo on boardwalk taken October 2022..others also recent

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Email:

Jayalp at optonline.net