In the battle of the sexes it is always the lady's decision to start a relationship or not. In D/s, it is always the submissive's decision as to whom she will serve. This forms a rather difficult exsistance for the Dominant at the outset. He must present himself to a submissive he might desire yet he cannot be very Dominant until she desires to begin to serve him.

I cannot find a way to present myself it seems. I do not have any need to prove myself to anyone. I know who I am. However, I understand that the submissive does not.

I am very real and honest with myself. I know that trust is a key factor in a D/s relationship and that trust is based on honesty and integrity. These things I possess but I cannot find a way to just show them to someone and have them understand and know I do possess these things. The only way someone can really find out is to give it the time it takes to deal with me and then see, by my actions, what I am made up of. I have no fear of what the outcome would be. I know what it would be. But, you don't.

All I can do is be real with myself, which I strive to do each and every day of my life and let the chips fall where they may. That is all I have until I have a submissive lady, serving me. Then I can be Dominant to her. Until then, I have no control nor power over any other person. It is a power exchange, based on mutual acceptance and desire that makes the D/s relationship. The submissive is the one that decides whom she will serve, therefore she holds the power until she decides to submit.

I am use to having the power and am a bit lost without it. So, I present myself to you. If you take the time, you might find that I am the very right Dominant man for you. But you need to take the time. So please, allow yourself to be open to me, talk to me, ask me questions, anything. Get to know me and allow me to get to know you. If you take that time, you very well might find the Dom you have been seeking all along.

I very much wish to be in a 24/7 relationship with a lady. It would require you moving here to my condo to live with me. That of course at the right place in time. I am in no rush. I believe we need to be friends first, and become a couple out of mutual respect and admiration. That won't happen over night.

So, do you have the time?