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| Even though BDSM is an important aspect of how I picture the ideal relationship, I do not believe in 24/7 or TPE. When the chemistry is right, the D/s is always beneath the surface, the feeling is always there. For such a relationship to be sustainable, there must be a balance between the intensity of "play", truly caring for each other, normal activities and above all trust. Unconditionality does not exist, for the primal condition for any meaningful relationship is mutual trust.
I know I am capable of deep submission, and unfortunately that has proven to make me an easy prey for "Real Masters" who in essence were not capable of caring for another. I am very wary not to make the same mistake, so if you already feel now that I am being too demanding for a submissive, please move on.
So what type of dominant am I looking for?
Important characteristics will definately be EQ and IQ, a good sense of humor, a born leader (not a tyrant), a calm nature and a positive thinker. Someone who is in charge of his own life before feeling the need to control someone else's. Someone who can honestly look at himself and take responsibility for his own choices instead of blaming another. Someone who aims to lift a woman through submission, as opposed to breaking her to disguise his own lack of self worth.
I know this type of man exists ... and I won't go for less anymore :-)
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