This is my Asexuality:

1. I don't find the female, male, nor any other body SEXUALY attractive. AKA: I don't get boners from looking at nude pics.

2. I don't enjoy the physical parts about having sex (I think). I know this is true for women and I am almost positive its true when it comes to men. This DOSEN'T mean I don't like sex, I just like it for non-physical reasons.

So there it is. I don't sexually like bodies and I don't like the physicality of sex. So what do I like? Being submissive. For me, I get turned on by the situation I am in. Am I bound? Am I gagged? Am I in a pink dress? All that kinda stuff is what turns me on.

And, yes, I can enjoy sex. It's just that the actually physical feeling of it is not sexually pleasing, its the surrounding circumstances that are. Am I being made to have sex? Am I having sex only to please my Mistress/Master? Am I in a pink dress? Those are the things that turn me on.

OK, is it clear now? You can go use Wikipedia now.

So if your looking at the romantic aspects of Asexuality on Wikipedia, I think I am panromantic. But then again I have only been in romantic relationships with girls, so who knows, I am up for anything. All this Asexuality stuff can get confusing, so my general philosophy is: If you like them and want to, do it.

SO, what do I like in the way of “kinky”. Well...

1. A lot.

2. Some things more then others.

3. I'm not going to tell you.

Why you ask? Because what I really like is being submissive and doing what someone wants me to. The problem with this is that I don't like it when I am told to do something because they know that is want I want them to tell me to do.

Confused? Yeah, OK, here is an example. Say I said: I like being forced to eat cabbage. Then the next time we have sex you pull out a cabbage. Guess what? I won't sexually enjoy it anymore. Why? I will know you are forcing me to eat cabbage because I like it, not because you like it. Thus, it will be ruined forever.

See? So I am not going to tell you. PS: I really Hate food with sex. It's kinda one of my few limits.