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I'm 37, dominant. Having been on here a while ago but left to explore more 'vanilla ways of life I am now back. The more conventional ladies of this world are all wonderful but life without a sprinkling D/s is no fun for me. Whilst I sometimes worry myself with my levels of kinkiness, it is not the be all and end all to my life. I'm looking for a lady to adore, cherish and admire as part of a male led relationship. Having seen lots of dominant guy's profiles on here I get the impression that their idea of being dominant is just on the legal side of being a rapist and that really isn't me. I'd expect you to have your own mind, job, friends and everything that is considered normal but when we're alone, well...
First off I said a part of me, being a Dom is not all of who I am, as such I am not looking for a sub who is nothing but that, I am not interested in TPE. I want someone who is their own person outside the relationship. I am interested in the woman as a whole, I do not base on looks alone, I am not one to judge. That said I think late 30s to 40 would be my hard upper limit in regards age.
Second, I have said I have explored this part of me, that does not mean I have found everything I like or enjoy doing. Some of the things I enjoy are inflicting pain in the form of spanks, slaps, clamps, floggers and the like. I like bondage, both mental and physical, though I lean more towards the mental. I do draw the line though at more permanent marks and though I said above in regards looks, I am not a fan of excessive tattoos or piercings, I prefer any marks to be made by my hand and none long lasting, means I get to do it again.
But the most important thing to me is discussion, I like talking though I don't come across as such, I am willing to discuss everything and anything. I have also neglected to completely fill out likes/dislikes, leaves room for discovery on both sides. So if you want to talk to me about anything feel free.
I am creative with a sadistic streak - I like to explore new territory and and push conventional boundaries. I believe in the mental connection first and foremost, the rest follows but if there's no mental side then you're just painting by numbers.
I don't subscribe to any 'established' bdsm rules. I've met too many in the lifestyle who believe you have to do it a certain way. I believe it is a relationship like any other and the sub I have been with have all had different expectations and needs. It depends how we connect.
Whilst physical attraction is important, I am interested in how your mind works. Underneath all that I'm a regular guy. If you are looking for a imaginative Dom with a sadistic streak then send me a message.
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