About Me


I’m a Black Man 52 living in N.W. Detroit Michigan. I’m 6’1” around 220 I’m also married; She has never been in the life style and in poor health. I’m a professional Man in Real Estate & the Mortgage industry. I myself have had a several Subs over the years. None were ever formally trained in the exchange of power. Now having been out of the lifestyle for a few years I can see that a much higher level of satisfaction can be achieved for the Dom and sub with set rules, training and commitment. I have no desire to share my Sub with another Dom or Master to prove my control over her. I believe that I must earn your trust and that will take time. Like you I am not just looking for kinky sex, but and emotional and physical commitment that BDSM brings. I consider myself a Dom with some Master tendency. I don’t play or like mind games. I say what I mean and mean what I say. I believe in safe sane sex. Having a Sub is a great responsibility and must be treated with GREAT care. I like to laugh Even if it’s at me. With me the glass is always half full never half empty. I smoke but, I am trying to quit and I like Vodka. I spent 6 yrs. In Army and have a little over two years of collage. My favorite color is red. I like Long hair, Big Boobs and a curvy butt. I’m very selective. I won’t just settle for anything. I can promise you this I will never stop trying to be a better Dom.

What I Like To Do

I love to BBQ, go on pick nicks. Go on long drive before gas got so expensive, sit around a fire place or a camp fire in the woods. I like watching football & Basketball games. I like drama and cowboy movies. I also like the game show Jeopardy and I like to cuddle.

What I’m looking for

The one that I seek should be looking for a long term relationship, as I am. The one that I’m searching for should be over 45 and be very curvy with cute feet. The one I seek should NOT enter into this relationship thinking that they will top from the bottom. Submissive women that describe themselves as moody, hard to handle and assertive I am not the one for you. This special unique sub that I seek should have a born need to serve and please. The sub I seek should understand that her submission shall go beyond the bedroom. The one I seek should like giving and getting oral sex, also like anal sex, spankings and bondage. The one I seek should be some what of a Masochist. After saying that, let me assure you that. I am not a sadist, but I do firmly believe that limited and controlled pain is needed for training.