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I have had other accounts here in the past; but have not been on here for a couple of years. I never really found the girl I am looking for. I am looking for a unique individual; a soul mate of sorts. I am a very dynamic dominant who enjoys being in control of many aspects of my pet's (my preference in terminology) life. In matters of sex I am extremely dominant and quite forceful in enforcing my wishes. In matters of everyday mundane life I like to influence her decisions and thought processes. For an example, I want her to wear clothing that I find her attractive and not necessarily clothing that she finds comfortable. And I expect to adapt her clothing choices to my wishes. I also want her to be intelligent enough to follow and participate in current events and to be able to debate any variety of topics from philosophy, politics, finances, etc... . I have found in past relationships (friend or romantic); that most enduring ones last because of common set of principles I have with the other individual. A basic concept of what is right or wrong goes a long way in forming a solid trust in one another. I realize some define domination in sexual matters only as Top/bottom or Dom/sub relationship. However, I tend to think that humans in general are very sexual creatures. And that sex is never far from our thoughts or actions. Controlling someone sexually can be a form of 24/7. And if you disagree with that I challenge to find any situation in which someone would not find sexual overtures in that situation. For that reason, I do not care for the label of 24/7 or TPE. Every relationship is unique unto itself; there are no preset conditions or rules. Just basic principles and concepts that are present in the beginning and are built upon as time goes by. Having been in this forum in the past; I know firsthand how frustrating and aggravating it can be. Even when you chat with someone real; you often find that cynicism and suspicion are never far from the surface. Though as technology has advanced; it is much easier today than 10 years ago to verify ones identity in a safe and practical manner. I say this, because if I meet someone I like and want to get know better ... I want to move to a better form of communication than just chatting as quickly as I can. This is in part because I am aggressive by default and because I have no desire to waste my time on something that is false. I tend to think that in an ideal setting that men take on a leadership role more easily than women do. From a modern day society stand point I recognize that this is politically incorrect. But I'm not here to run for office or to get a job. I'm here to find that perfect girl who is one in a million. I want my pet to think along the same lines. I enjoy controlling my pet. Teaching her about new things and concepts. Exploring what her own body and mind can do to her. I enjoy the subtle and mental aspects more so than the brute force. I desire for her to feel perfectly safe and protected; yet to have no idea what may happen next. All she has to rely upon is her trust and faith in me. I do not believe in safe words. I also do not believe in ever placing someone in position where a safe word is required or even needed. The basic concept is she can never really say 'no'; and that she never feels the need to say 'no'. The things that I like the most are tit play, humiliation, orgasm control and mental domination. I have a huge fetish for tit play and that will come apparent very quickly in any prolonged communication. I do not care about size per say as long as it is proportional to the rest of her. A cup is a little too small but feasible if her nipples are or can be trained to be ultra-sensitive. And D cup or larger can be fun but tends to cause more restriction on the type of activities I like. I enjoy humiliation in name calling, some public play, and slutty dressing. I love being able to walk up to my pet and call her a bitch or cunt and have her respond as if that were her name. Orgasm control is central to my training methods. I believe that by controlling when she cums and when she does not cum is the most effective way to train her to my wishes. I also want her to know instinctively that when she cums for my pleasure then that orgasm will be the most mind blowing experience she could ever possibly have and that anything prior to these pales in comparison. To get to that point is where the mental domination comes into play. I love to manipulate her environment by giving her activities to do, subjects to research, assignments to perform on a daily basis. I want her to be thinking about specific things which in turn will arouse her; yet I would have no direct contact with her during this period. It could be while she was at work, or out shopping, or on a business trip; but where ever she is she will be stirring her own passions and needs by obeying my wishes. she would be on fire internally and yet force to display calmness about her while in public. And when we finally meet; she still will have no idea what is in store for her. Except she knows instinctively she will be better for the experience of it. To get to that point takes time. Time takes patience; which admittedly is not my strong suit. It takes a base level of understanding and trust to form. And to develop this in this venue makes it even more challenging. Things I will not do any under circumstances: pedophile, bathroom play, bestiality, religious play, and anything which can lead to permanent marks or injuries with the exception of nipple rings. I also hate fake tits. Size does not matter; sensitivity does. Things I do particular care for but are negotiable: breath play, play scenes/parties, fisting, sharing. My preferences for women tend to be for the athletic slender type. I prefer brunettes; and a feisty or even stubborn attitude. If you think you cannot be tamed then I would look forward to taming you. I prefer a younger woman and one that would like to have children someday. If you already have children that is fine. I do not; but have always desired a family of my own. I would like more of a traditional relationship (i.e. dating leading to a marriage) which would include you relocating to where I am. I do not want a BBW, African American, or Indian for my pet. All of you are wonderful people and have your own special qualities; but I do not see that working out as my perfect pet. Book_of_Silver (same handle in yahoo).