MEMO:  WORDS OF WISDOM FOR THOSE ABOUT TO FOLLOW

A friend of mine once asked me: “What happened?” In many ways what follows now is a part of that answer. Sometimes solving the mystery of whom or what somebody is cannot be explained away with an extreme answer such as “I’m a Dominant”. I won’t bore anybody with my assessment of BDSM or the “lifestyle” or even the convenient ambiguity of a term such as “D/s”.

 I am the genuine article when it comes to BDSM. But those words mean nothing. It is the deeds I perpetrate and the expectations and values I instill into those beneath me that I control that mean the most to me. I want somebody that is serious and devoted to following the guidance I offer as a Dominant. Will things be on a physical level? Yes they will. We will also explore the emotional, mental, sensual and spiritual aspects of BDSM. You will become a servant to any and all of my needs and will learn to cherish that reality.

Folks I am sick and tired of dealing with people that have been victimized by liars. Also lumped into this are the people looking for the “One”. I believe in the “we” ideal when it comes to the explorations of BDSM. By trade I am in sales and also a person with a huge creative upside. I value the HITT ideal/paradigm as it applies to existing within BDSM. What this basically means is: Honesty, Integrity, Trust and Truth.

My background within BDSM has been diverse and as a Dominant I have had several different people under my direction and guidance. I appreciate an open-mind and a willingness to explore deeply and sensually on all levels of our shared experiences to come. Collaring somebody under me means “Collared” and not collared. In order for anybody under me to get Collared they will have to prove themselves worthy.

Getting together means many questions being asked and answered. This cannot be avoided. The value in such an analysis is that it provides some clarity into what kind of person you might be and how you might behave under my control. I do care for my continued well-being and for those that serve under me. This is where we both develop a defined understanding and value of each other grounded in respect.

Now there will be some liars that may attempt to borrow what I have said and use it for their own lecherous and nefarious purposes. Don’t bother; it won’t work if you don’t believe. Proof and truth comes from looking deeply into the eyes of someone in person. Not from e-mails, instant messaging, talking on the phone or reading the words in a person’s profile.

What comes next is simple: be decisive and respond promptly. Prove your value as a servant under me in some fashion. Be creative and show me now how worthy you really are.