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Hello
i am hoping to meet a Lady for online communication first, leading to having coffee in a public place and hopefully elevating to realtime play.
Getting to know oneanother is important in this world, i believe.
Please don't be one that says "It's all about ME, and not you!", or "It's not what you want, it's about what I want!".
This type of play is what BOTH people want and need.

There are many lesbians on this site who go and say "No men". This is to be respected. That being said i, as a straight man, also say "No men". That includes public play. i hope this can be respected as well. This is not about this-or-that-phobic, etc.---it is about personal preference. i personally believe all people should be respected. W/we are all human beings with desires and feelings, no matter the orientation or Dominant/submissive status.

That being said, while my profile does say submissive, i would not mind try my "dom" side, although i will always be 90% submissive/slave. Being a sub/slave to a Woman has always been a fantasy of mine ever since i was a kid. And no, i have not been abused or neglected in any way shape or form.
Not seeking a permanent relationship at this time, just SAFE consentual BDSM entertainment with like-minded Ladies.

i have lots and lots of thoughts on BDSM and would not even mind exchanging "recipes" :-)

So let's go slow. Lets talk. Lets get to know oneanother.

Obviously i am not into anything illegal. Also, please be unattached; i am not interested in contributing to the possible breakup of a marriage or relationship.
Also, i am not interested in engaging in any high-risk behavior. Let's face it. You do not know me and i do not know You. Besides, the greatest erogenous zone is the human mind.
LOTS can be done in the area of play withOUT any high risk acitivities.

i am also not into anything that has to do with permanent damage, i.e., branding, or any type of permanent scarring.

My life is 99% vanilla, meaning i have a wide variety of interests, spanning history, mathematics, nature, hiking, reading, real estate investing, financial planning, architecture, science, anthropology, etc. i also love watching documentaries encompassing the above genres.

Now the remaining 1% which is not exactly vanilla...
cold underground dungeons
racks/pillories
suspension devices
flogging posts
holding cells
being used as a human coffeetable
nipple clamps
water torture
tickle torture

If You are a Sadistic Woman who loves to hear a tortured man's cries from behind his gag, all the better

i hope to hear from like-minded Ladies soon.

Let's play ;-)
DominaChandra13
 
 Age: 25
 Korea/Vigan City, Philippines