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[updated Apr 27, 2011]
I am lonely. I have been without a woman for far too long. I miss the company of a submissive woman as a partner or a slave-minded woman in need of being completely owned and controlled. I know who I am, where I've been, what I want for the future. I am always looking ahead. Although there will always be some give & take in negotiations, I do not bend just to have a partner. I will not tolerate the extra drugs needed to be around cats. I'm allergic, deal with it. I do love dogs, especially if they are not yapping pocket-sized terrorists.
Vanilla is sometimes necessary, but distasteful. I am not a fanatic about a D/s or BDSM lifestyle, but clear lines of who does what to and for whom will be established from the beginning. You must love being tied and gagged whenever I want you that way. If you just tolerate it we will not be compatible. Being experienced in Western bondage styles, I find that binding a willing woman into total helplessness is one of the most enjoyable ways to spend intimate time together. Playing with, teasing and tormenting a helpless woman is my idea of fun. You should enjoy some level of masochism. I am a playful sadist, not a brute. Beating you just to make me feel better is not enjoyable, and I will never go there. Causing controlled pain for mutual pleasure is another matter all together. Corporal punishment may also be necessary when reason and motivational methodologies fail.
I am seeking a woman in her 40's or 50's, that enjoys being feminine. A woman in her 30's would be nice but only if she was more service oriented than fuck-me-all-the-time oriented. Dresses and heels are infinitely preferable to slacks and flats. Severe obesity is just too unhealthy to appreciate, but a few extra pounds can be playful fun.
You should want to work with me to make this relationship last. Polyamory is absolutely out of the question. I am monogamous & you should be too. Considering I am (illegal) drug, alcohol and tobacco free, the same from my mate would be appreciated, but is not necessary. I am comfortable in my sobriety. I celebrate 7 years clean & sober in June 2011.
I love learning, so museums, historical architecture, botanical gardens and parks are all things I enjoy, but not long walks on any beach, or anywhere. My knees rebel. Learning about you and sharing my world with you will be the heart of our relationship. I know communication is very important, but we can hold hands and talk sitting down. I especially like to talk to women while they're helplessly tied to a chair. The fantasy of typing away on my next novel, bouncing ideas off of a woman tied to a chair right next to me, is a delightful image and something I long for. At any rate, I like reading, movies, some TV, (mostly educational stuff and action adventure) and I am writing my second novel. The first should be e-published by Aug, 2011. I am in college to learn more about the craft of writing. Writing is shamelessly pandering to my bad knees.
I realize no one can sustain an absolute BDSM lifestyle. Reality happens, and we are human. However, a serious BDSM dynamic is desired. A power exchange is a must. I do not believe in bullying, or setting my partner up for failure. I enjoy teaching, reasoning things out and motivating rather than dictating. I do not suffer liars, unreasonable fools or hypocrisy. I'm far from perfect, but I mean well and work continually at being positive. I will send you my picture(s) if you e-mail me at waltxan at gmail dot com. I will not post a pic on this site or enclose one in any correspondence from this site. I've had troubles in the past with other screen names. I work from my real email addy on gmail.
Also, if you would like to read short stories by me, about what I like in bondage encounters, I will direct you to the sites online that posted my material. If we click, I could be persuaded to write one just for you. (wink)
If you've made it this far, please enjoy some of my favorite form of poetry.
When you read Haiku,
You know it must be precise.
Each word is crucial.
I work with soft ropes.
My hands and mind make it fun
to exchange power.
I want all of you.
Half measures waste precious time.
Submit, now, to me.
I will cherish you,
as your submission serves me,
fulfilling our needs.
If this intrigues you,
tell me what you will offer,
in your first e-mail.
Be well & happy
Walt
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The World According to Walt: In human sexuality studies, males are supposed to be goal oriented and females are said to be process oriented. Is there a more artful process in the realms of human interaction than a man binding a woman, to emphasize her beauty and femininity, for the goal of having her at his private disposal to sate his lusts? Does the process of applied glamours entice a man to his best efforts? Is his inner-hunter sated when he has captured his prize? I wonder why more kinksters do not appreciate the intimacy of bondage for what it truly is? Is 200' of rope ever enough? |
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| Age: 51 |
| Philomath,
Oregon |
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