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Are you a woman (single or part of a couple) who loves to be bound, spanked, & teased until you're begging to come?
I'm experienced, sensual, and fun. I can do a wide range of play, from light, fun, & sexy to deep, dark, & soulful exploration.
I have no interest in gay men or transgender.
I am a polyamorous, straight, childfree white guy, 5'9", 200 lbs., smart, funny, unpretentious, decent cook, good listener, loyal friend, inventive lover, occasionally annoying. I would like to meet a smart, nonsmoking, open-hearted, straight or bisexual woman within 50-100 miles of Boston who has room in her life for another to share fun days, kinky nights, delicious mornings.
I'm attracted to smart, affectionate women who can hold an intelligent conversation, who are passionate about important things in their lives, and who can laugh and enjoy life.
I have always enjoyed tying up and turning on smart, strong, willing women. I'm in no hurry, I have a deliberate set of questions and limits I carefully explore, and I've found that each woman I've had the pleasure of "having my way with" is so unique and delicious that it's a pleasure to see what physical and mental challenges excite her.
Tie you standing, run one hand lightly over your skin, delicately touch you in places that make you shiver, use my other hand to tease you with a well-lubricated vibrator until you beg me to "finish you off"? Check.
Tie you spread on the bed, lick you and lightly whip you until you've lost count of how many times you've come, not sure if you can go again, but can't do anything about my relentless tongue working you over AGAIN? Lots of fun, ready to do more!
Blindfold you, handcuff you, cut off your clothes, lock my collar around your neck, yank your leash, leaving you off-balance, helplessly following me and wondering what I'll do with you this time? Priceless!
Just to be clear, I'm "polyamorous." This means:
- My relationships are open (non-exclusive), conducted with honesty and integrity.
- I am involved with multiple lovers, and I will continue to be in the future. I am not "searching for the right one."
- While I don't tend to share intimate details, I do tell each of my lovers about the others.
- I take all of my relationships seriously. I have no desire for something "casual."
- I don't require you to be "poly," but if you're married or involved *and* cheating (looking to get involved with other people WITHOUT your spouse's/lover's knowledge or consent), we will need to discuss that.
If you're only looking for sex or casual hook-ups, I'm not interested. I'm a heart-centered guy with a wide range - fun and relaxed, gentle and nurturing, and (once we've established appropriate trust) firm-handed and deviously kinky.
Also, "childfree" means that I am not interested in having or raising children. I am certainly open to meeting women who have or want children, just as long as we're clear about my limits. No, this does not mean that I dislike children, just that I don't want to become a parent or guardian. I have a number of people in my life with children, and from time to time *when I'm up for it* I visit them, have a great time, and then go home to my hectic but quiet, childfree life.
How you feel about yourself, how you treat other people, and whether you have room in your life for another are much more important to me than your age, race, or "looks." On the surface I may appear to be your typical "nice" guy but there's a whole lot more to me than meets the eye. Fairness, compassion, acceptance, and integrity are core values for me.
I live a few miles west of Boston, I work out, I don't smoke or drink, but I don't mind being around social drinkers. I am drug- and disease-free. I'm nonreligious, but I respect other people's choices.
I can offer an open mind, generous heart, joyful spirit, devilish tongue, firm hands, shoulders strong enough to lean on, and arms gentle enough for cuddling and holding you while you sleep.
I enjoy a WIDE variety of sexual play - including (but not limited to) restraining a willing partner, turning her on, and seeing where that leads. I also like talking (remember talking?), holding hands, kissing, and other romantic pursuits. Going slowly, having clear communication, asking for what you want, and respecting all limits are key.
If we do meet in person, don't worry, unlike a lot of people on this site my only goal will be to have a nice conversation and start to get an idea of who you are (and to give you an idea of who I am), not to sleep with you or do anything sexual or engage in any bondage or BDSM play. I like spending time with smart, interesting women, and I'm in *no* hurry to get sexual.
One lover describes me as a "sweet, considerate, attentive, intelligent, articulate, cute, patient, interesting, sexual, pancake lover."
I have NO interest in endless "cyber," i.e., online contact from someone who has no interest in meeting in person
I enjoy restraining a willing partner, turning her on, and seeing where that leads.
Interested in learning more?
==> Send me a message This site lets you do that for free.
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She comes into my apartment knowing her instructions. "When you come out of the bathroom, know that I'll cut or rip off whatever you're wearing, except for your slutty shoes." She comes out wearing a tight T-shirt, panties, and the high heels I like. I smile, kiss her, and then grab her by the hair and spank her. Before her pounding pulse can return to normal, I've got her in my leather cuffs and collar, hands snap-bolted behind, ankles snap-bolted together. She looks at me hungrily, and I blindfold her. I shove her up against the wall facing me, kiss her roughly, and then whip her lightly. I rip open her T-shirt and tease her breasts slooowly. Then I snap a leash to her collar and drag her quickly into the other room, she's hopping to keep up. I put her on a wooden chair whose seat I've removed for better access, and I strap her wrists to the vertical rear posts, spread her legs over the sides and strap her ankles to the rear posts as well.
I take 3 wide leather belts and strap her waist, lower chest, and upper chest to the back of the chair. I then take my finger and my electric toothbrush and alternate how I tease her through her panties, mixed with my mouth on her breast and a tickling finger down her back. The first orgasm will be a slow and fast and slow rollercoaster ride of pleasure and frustration and moaning until I'm ready to let her come. She know that she had better say "thank you" each time, or she'll be punished. She knows that I like begging and don't like swearing. My vibrators, lubricant, rope, ice-cold water bottle, and other toys are already arranged on the nearby table. The evening has only just begun....
That's just a portion of last Friday night with a lovely, feisty, willing woman with whom I've built the trust and communication over time, and who enjoys putting herself in my hands.
straight, poly, kinky, childfree |
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He wants to leave his wife with me, for me to train/rape/hurt her??
Here's an instant message conversation with a man in his 50s who approached me online (on a different site) last week. He and his wife are in Florida, over 1,000 miles away. I think he approached me having only seen my username, not having read my profile. Note that he figured throwing sexy photos of his wife at me would convince me, and how he completely ignores my sane (and mocking) advice.
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him: dom my wife?
BondageLover617: well, I'm not a big fan of travel, so unless you visit the Boston area, it's not going to work for me
BondageLover617: still there?
him: yes
(sent me sexy photo #1 of his wife)
BondageLover617: yes, what?
him: still here
(sent me sexy photo #2 of his wife)
BondageLover617: did you read what I wrote in response to your question?
him: could visit and leave her for training
BondageLover617: you would leave your wife in the hands of a complete stranger?
him: yessss
BondageLover617: I don't understand why you would do that?
him: for whore and pain training
BondageLover617: and how do you know I can be trusted?
him: could sign her over
(sent me sexy photo #3 of his wife)
BondageLover617: that doesn't answer my question
him: i dpont know maybe you will hut her
him: hurt
him: even better
BondageLover617: and how do you know that I have any skills in this area?
him: i dont
him: do you?
(sent me sexy photo #4 of his wife)
BondageLover617: and how do I know that you or she won't have me arrested for kidnapping, assault, false imprisonment, or rape?
him: rape is exacly what she needs and just howit will happen at first
him: can i be there for her initial rape?
BondageLover617: I think you need to spend about a month thinking about this - I suggest you find a local professional dominatrix and hire her to teach you
him: have you done this befre?
BondageLover617: yes, I have talked to crazy people like you who have no idea what they are doing
him: she was drugged tt beat and ass raped about a monthago
BondageLover617: and how did that work out?
him: was bruised up nicely and wants it again
BondageLover617: then I suggest you go back to that person; on my planet we think about the risks and the consequences of our actions
him: yea its not for everyone thanks anyway
BondageLover617: good luck, I hope everyone involved stays out of prison |
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Tip on using collarme:
Given that:
- The date you lasted logged in to collarme ("Last On") is visible to other members,
and
- Collarme Searches can be Sorted by "Last On."
Then if you make an effort to sign in once in a while, you'll probably get more attention and increase your odds of making a connection on here.
If you don't want other members to see your "Last On" date when viewing your profile details, you can hide it in your "My Account" settings, but it still seems to be visible if you appear in a Search sorted by "Last On." (You can always hide your entire profile on your "Edit Profile" page if you want to go that far.)
Speaking for myself, I'm *much* more likely to send a message to someone who's signed in within the past month or two than to someone who last signed in over a year ago. Why would I waste my time sending a message to a "dusty old profile"?
Martin
straight poly kinky childfree
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| Age: 24 |
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