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A journeyman looking for a fellow traveller. Control. Bondage. Sensuality. Sexuality. I'm more switch than dom, but more dom than sub. Labels are a necessary uselessness; They are nothing but a starting point. I'm a mature Male, fit, active, kinky (who isn't?) seeking clever, intelligent, sassy, submissive women who are not beige and are willing to submit to me. Generally uninhibited, pretty unfazeable (seen too much), open to new ideas and fringe – always have been, always will be.
I have my limits – everyone does. But I'm constantly reviewing myself. And the moment you interact with me, you've changed me. I am Schrodinger's cat. What am I looking for?
Hmmm, someone who'll read my profile would be a good start LOL!
What I'm really looking for friendship and total trust.
Someone with whom I can share exploration.
Of anything.
I'm not really looking for 'The One' or 'Love'. We all change over time and 'The One' today is likely 'The Millstone' in 1, 10, 30... years time. And not having had much Love (as I imagine it should be) in my life, I probably wouldn't know Love if it drove a bus over me! I'm not looking for 24x7 or casual or part time. I'm looking for consistent.
I love sex but it's almost ancillary - Sensuality is necessary though. Physical and cerebral. And I'm really, really into bondage. I'm Mr Rigger, but for the right person I might even be the bondage bunny.

I need intelligence. I simply don't suffer fools particularly well. So if you use txt speak in an email... move along please. And I always welcome discussion and discourse – there's no end to what I can learn.
And perhaps teach along the way.
2/11/2010 7:02:49 AM
This is a great forum entry
http://www.collarchat.com/m_1717756/mpage_1/tm.htm

Pass it on to whatever men you encounter!

Full kudos to transensualist for showing it on her journal. Totally agree Olivia :)
1/28/2010 1:10:02 AM

Although I avoid labels, it would true that I have many Dom straits.
One trait is the expectation that if I ask simple questions, I get answers.
I consider it a common curtsey that if I take the time to ask pertinent questions, the receiver will take the time to answer them.

Chatting is pointless exercise if you can't be bothered developing the exchange.

1/28/2010 1:08:42 AM

What is worse than fakes (who can be easily spotted and quite fun to mess with!) -
Timewasters!
People who drift interactions inanely nowhere in particular.
What is the point?
Maybe I'm missing something!

Ok... maybe in a sense Timewasters are Fakes!

1/6/2010 1:50:32 PM

For me, there is nothing better than to look into the eyes of my bondage partner, to watch the change they go through. From the anticipation, to the rope first touching their skin, to the complete bind and subspace.

Actually there is... to watch them then toss and writhe as the orgasm crashes through their constrained, restricted bodies....

DevilishSwitch
 
 Age: 24
  Iowa