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BoldLV

Straight Dominant BDSM practitioner looking for a willing sub.

I've also been considering to make myself available as an instructor for couples (M-f , f-f) or singles (f) looking for "hands on" guidance/training on strict, demanding but also romantic and safe BDSM.

Safe, Sane, Secure, Consensual & Real.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a very special kind of woman for active BDSM participation.
She is open minded and knows what she wants. She has a good dose of inteligence, self confidence, personality, self respect and self esteem but craves being dominated, restrained and overpowered. She is willing to start a BDSM relationship, she is willing to explore, to try, to expand her mind, to free herself, to give and receive the wide range of liberating feelings and sensations that BDSM has to offer. She already has a life. Her life is not determined by others. Her age is something in between 21 and 46 years old. She is healthy and is willing to prove it. (std's). Her looks: While beauty is just a very personal point of view and personal preference, the right chemistry / attraction is a must (for both of us). Me. Absolute zero drugs, non smoker, very light casual drinker. Healthy as well.
43 years old.
I've had 3 long term BDSM partners in 13 years of lifestyle. The way it has worked for me is a non binding, open relationship with sessions every time that we can or we want. I hold previous professional, social and family commitments that I won't give up and I don't ask to you give up yours either. Think of me like a "portal" to an alternate - almost therapeutic- reality where you can let go your taboos and live your inner submissive self. A safe place where you find domination, bondage and great pleasure.
The proposal is a long term, healthy and inspiring BDSM relation with no additional commitments.
The thing with this "kinky bug" is that creates a very strong attachments at a personal level. (After all you know each other's most intimate details and every session is an excercise of total trust bringing down all your barriers and defenses).
I believe that the Dom is actually "serving" and caring for his sub as the most precious and fragile treasure.
There is much more to explain about my vision of a BDSM partnership.
Interested??
Let me know.
boldlv at gmail
I will send pics upon request.
3/18/2011 5:41:57 PM

Think of me like a "portal" to an alternate - almost therapeutic- reality where you can let go your taboos and live your inner submissive self. A safe place where you find domination, bondage and great pleasure.   

9/23/2010 8:19:57 PM

It there anything better than a tigthly tied sub being flogged and rewarded with multiple orgasms??