If you see me in the street i doesn´t show. I look like anybody. Dominance is not my total lifestyle. I am a person with a lot of interest that are not connected to this. But when it comes to a close relationship with a woman there is no doubt what I want. I want to be in charge. I want to take the lead. Dominance is not a sex game to me. It is not a thing that I turn on and off like with a switch. Even if it is not a thing we show others in public you are always the submissive one and I am the dominant. There is always rules of some kind guiding you. You know it, and you know there will be consequences if you disobey.

I find the psychological/mental part of dominance to be the essence. To teach and train you how to be an obedient woman serving my sexual needs and perhaps more. I use things like whips and chains and bondage in my training. But those things are tools to achieve the mental goals.

I am no brutal sadist. I do not believe I have to raise my voice to get you where I want. It is not about that. As long as I am consistent when the rules are set you will follow. You know you have to or there will be consequences. I am believe in using punishments and rewards when I educate you.