It seems strange, in a sad way… this site is all about meeting people of like interests, obviously including the possibility of sex, kinky or otherwise… but it seems like no one ever actually wants to sit down over coffee and talk, see if there’s friendship chemistry or whatever. Craig’s List is the same way: People TALK like they want to meet, get to know one another and so forth, but they almost never actually follow through!  I wonder if I am making some glaring social error in my written attempts to contact people. Do my pictures make me look either totally unlikeable or like some axe-murdering wack-o? Hanging out in bars bores the living crap out of me, this (on-line) seemed like a possible alternative, but I am about ready to call it quits with the entire BS deal…