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The first and the best victory is to conquer self. -Plato
Blue eyes: "To me there is something special about BDSM it’s felt like home to me from the first time I met people who were involved in the lifestyle for real, the only word I can think of to describe it is: primal. I've been involved in the lifestyle for over three solid years and reading, learning, meeting people involved in it 3 years prior to that.
In the vanilla side of life: I’m originally from Boston and though I’ve been in California for over half my life I’ll always be a Boston boy at heart. I’m easy going and a talker, love a good conversation. I may be the ultimate open book there is, not much
about me that I wont talk about or tell you about, just ask. I have a “New England” sense of humor... as does Minx.. luckily enough!
I originally started off as a sub... very subby in fact but over the last year I've discovered my true calling as a Dom which changed me a great deal and I've never been happier! Now I've met Minx, my girlfriend & my wonderful sub whom I get to share this wonderful lifestyle with.
Minx and I are a lifestyle couple who are very much in love and happy with our dynamic. We have discussed the mutual need for open play and further discovery of BDSM. She is my beautiful, sexy submissive who is curious about possibly topping. I encourage her 100% to explore this side of herself and will guide her to the outer reaches of her abilities safely.
As for myself I would love to have a sister sub for Minx, also I take great joy in helping people discover the lifestyle safely and I would love to mentor anyone who needs help discovering this wonderful world we share. Male, Female, Dom, sub, switch, if you need a guiding hand we would be more that happy to help and I personally find it very fulfilling. This is something I don't take lightly, BDSM is very important to me and neither of us are looking for only random play, intellect matters, stimulate our minds, our sense of humor and if there is a connection. We would love to see where things go from there.
Minx: "I am fairly new to the lifestyle and am having a fabulous time finding my own little corner in it. I am a lifestyle submissive to my love and Dominant, Blue eyes. He has taken me by the hand and shown me the joys of BDSM safely and sensually.
As most of you know, there are seemingly unlimited facets to BDSM and nobody can assume to "know it all". I consider myself a lifetime student, and recently have been discovering the true depths of my submission as natural resistance is testing me. I have had the unbelievable fortune to have found a group of people in the lifestyle who have such a real life, grounded, safe sane and consensual take on the acts of BDSM and the true freedom that can be extracted from it. Safely. I am continually fascinated by the intense physical and emotional sensations I have been able to discover through this. As well as the inner peace and sense of being "whole" that it has offered me.
Besides, getting to dress up like a saucy minx whenever I go out in the scene doesn't hurt either ;)
I am curious to try topping, but am comfortable in the fact that I am a natural submissive, and find my true self in this. More than anything, I'd like to meet like minded friends in the lifestyle.
Together, we are open to exploring:
-Co-topping
-Finding a sister-sub for Minx (though not live in)
-Exploring minx's top fantasies
-Lifestyle friends, friends and more friends
-Possible Dominant for Minx to play with.
-Helping anyone we can that needs a guiding hand.
Possibly Blue Eyes taking on a mentor role.
-A mentor and teacher for Blueyes to help him become a better skilled and more well rounded Dom
-Maybe a couple to play with. >;)
-A Domme that can help Minx improve her skills as a Top.
-A Domme that would Top Blue Eyes if he considers switching sometime.
Please be safe, and good luck to you and your journey into and through this beautiful world of BDSM.
~Blue Eyes & minx
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