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Hi Thanks for taking a little time to read my profile - I am a mature man, experienced and well travelled – although not trying to reach any ultimate destination to be honest– the journey is the "rush". My sense of humour has been described as "askew" whatever that means! Reasonably intelligent and outgoing a live-and-let-live kind of person. Liberal in my views, left(ish) in my politics and believe that most problems could be solved by a change of address. I like: Chinese food, my own company and that of selected others, sunshine on my back, sand between my toes and the sound of the ocean whilst I sleep, Jack Daniels, Jack Nicholson, Celtic music, red wine, women, single tails, playing guitar, Autumn, understanding how things work and mending things that don’t and I really like to have chocolate and coffee at the same time! I think it's because the chocolate's cold and the coffee’s hot and the chocolate's sweet and the coffee’s not! I dislike: crowds, queues, ignorance, bigotry, intolerance, racism, sexism, ageism and in fact most "ism's" other than tourism. I don’t like opera – “soap” or otherwise. I despise cruelty to anything that can’t defend itself, greed and jealousy (although I’ve been there) and most acts committed in the name of any deity. I think my personality type is extrovert with a dash of shy and a twist of darkness. I am adventurous, imaginative and very inquisitive by nature. I worked all over the world over that past couple of decades but mostly in the far East - I love all things Japanese! I have travelled extensively under my own steam too - but it's a big world and there is still so much I want to see! Unfortunately my plans to become financially independent via an amassed private fortune have not come to fruition. Yet I am happy with what I have and with those who are able to love me as I am. I feel I have so much that so many spend their lives looking for. I really do count myself lucky in this life.....
Well, that's it for now
Thanks for spending time to read it and
Best Regards
Dx
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Fake Spotting For Dummies.
I know we "Doms" tend to be cock driven beasts, and hence, are oft times easily leads by the nose by the huge number of unscrupulous and devious selection of fakes, flakes, freaks and fuck up's in this delightful public sewer we inhabit all of our own free will.
Thankfully most of these bottom feeders are easily identified and steered clear of if you have sufficient strength of character and reasonable control of your cock.
This points system will give you a good idea of the people you are dealing with and an indication of whom to give a wide berth. It might also save you time, effort, heartache and possibly even money, if you are of the gullible disposition.
The method is not fool proof - it is only a guide and an indicator but on balance it seems to work.
The first rule - like everything else in this life is... if it looks too good to be true IT IS!
If you are a fat, bald 50+ year old man (like myself) then it is VERY unlikely that a young fresh unsullied young lady of good looks and character and background will throw herself at your feet. Still not impossible but VERY unlikely.
So here it is:
To start off each profile is allocated 100 points.
No face photo = minus 10 points
1 single face photo = minus 10 points
Multiple photos that look like an obvious porn shoot = minus 20 points
Strange location information - eg Canadian living in Togo = minus 10 points
Unusual use of language - eg "Am unlimit slave who need extreme dominate" = minus 10 points
Unsolicited contacts that are clearly cut and paste = minus 10 points
Profiles which specify "written only" no cam, speech or meetings EVER = minus 20 points
Friends list = deduct 2 points for every friend entry greater than 10
Actively seeking = subtract 5 points for each category selected
Now deduct the total from 100.
100 to 80 = Probably Real
80 to 50 = Suspicion Alert
50 to 30 = High chance of fakery
Less than 30 RUN AWAY!!!
Try it it works! :0) |
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Some strange people in habit this public space.
I have never has a problem with anyone's sexuality - ever.
But it seems weird to me for anyone - usually people identifying as lesbian to be exorcised by men looking at their pictures in a public uncontrolled space. I expect there maybe lesbian only sites which I wouldn't dream of joining.
I must have glanced at a profile today that turned out to be a lesbian female - of course I just moved on.
Next I get a who is viewing me alert. I look. Tis said young lady. I write a note to say - sorry just stopped by and moved on. She had blocked me.
Don't know who she is, never heard of her, she's nothing special to look at really and of no interest, consequence or loss to me in any way.
But I wonder what the message being sent is? Am I committing some misdemeanour o or offence in her eyes?
Do these people walk around in their daily lives waiting to be offended if a bloke should have the temerity to lay eyes on them?
I would think they must be offended an awful a lot in that case.............
Ah well - on wards and side ways - life's too short right? :0)
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Strange how many "submissives" essentially wrap stupid nilla romanticism and a love of kinky sex together to create their own version of BDSM and then wonder why they get what they ALWAYS get in the vanilla world.
I see again and again something along the lines of - " I found MY ONE! - he is wonderful, perfect, the best man I ever met ever he owns my very soul - I wont talk to anyone else ever!
2 weeks later....
I am devastated, my heart is shattered, I shall never recover, How could he abandon me when I loved him so deeply? He is abusive and an emotional sadist and possibly a sociopath and and evil bastard to boot. Don't contact me for details - but he has betrayed trust and everything I demanded of him he has shattered my world and my belief in the sub/dom dynamic! I would name and shame him but I pray he may yet return and light my world and become the centre of of my very existence once more.
FFS!
CS is worse than the real world my dears -it's the internet....
It's mostly not real. Common sense and buyer beware approach apply here more than anywhere and will halp keep you safe.
And it's not men and it's not doms and it's not women and it's not Subs or Dommes.
These manipulative people exist at all levels of reality including this one.
Also falling in love is a long term process and building trust takes enormous amounts of time. There is no happy ever after with out creating - a happy for the time being and a so far so good -lets see how it goes approach first. I mean in the billions of people available do you really think there is your perfect ONE or that your submission is really a gift?
If you do you are as deluded and actually create the environment for unscrupulous people who prey on you....I don't say you deserve everything you get - we can all be fooled and all are at some point probably will be, life without risk is no life at all, but "in at the deep end" is not a good self management technique - especially in this environment...
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I am wondering what the new flush of supposed submissive females, showing a single, often clearly professional photograph, with a profile insisting on a written only (ie no pictures or other contact) interaction. They seem to be seeking harsh, demanding yet entirely on-line D/s relationships, What is this about?
I mean there might well be just a few here and there who would find such a relationship rewarding - I get that.
However there seems to be a glut of this type of profile of late.
They meet all the fake criteria fall squarely into the rubbish bin category - I just wonder what the people behind them hope to gain from such an obvious ruse... |
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I wonder how this new legislation will colour the geography of our life style?
How long it will be before an aggrieved submissive or slave, uses the new laws to try and punish a Dominant for providing exactly the sort of treatment both initially desired and later used as evidence against said Dom? How to define when BDSM stops and "abuse" begins? Even where agreements/contracts were to be signed, prior to any such activity, I don't think they would be acceptable in law, since it is not deemed a sane act to contract to be abused.....I suspect consensuality would not be an acceptable defence either. Yet (on the surface) there a huge number of people across the UK who practice just this sort of "abusive" lifestyle in a most happy and harmonious manner. Surely there must be some recognition of this as just part of our normal sexuality and the human condition in many relationships? otherwise we have a whole tranche of Doms and Dommes just ripe for prosecution.
Do you think there is a clear and acceptable was of differentiating between what we call acceptable behaviour from that the legislation clearly deems illegal?
New Legislation ▪▪ Clearly this refers to abuse. However, it leaves so much to be considered, especially if the tide turns ........ ************** **New legislation** Controlling and coercive behaviour in relationships is now illegal with the introduction of new legislation From today (29 December 2015), coercion and control in a relationship will be a criminal offence, carrying a maximum sentence of five years in prison. The new legislation mean that victims who are subjected to coercive and controlling behaviour can bring their perpetrators to justice, with incidents that stop short of serious physical violence but amount to extreme psychological and emotional abuse will now be recognised as a crime within the domestic abuse framework. Detective Chief Superintendent at Greater Manchester Police, Vanessa Jardine, said: �This change in legislation means for the first time perpetrators who control their partners through threats or by restricting their personal or financial freedom could face prison in the same way as those who are violent towards them. �Campaigners for a long time have called for a change in the law to put psychological exploitation on a par with physical violence. Coercive control has been described by many experts as the most damaging and risky form of abuse , whereby victims describe losing a sense of themselves and becoming trapped in a false sense of reality. �This type of abuse is less likely to be reported to the police as victims often feel they won�t be believed and prefer to lean on friends and families. It is vital therefore those officers are aware of the new legislation and make great efforts to understand the underlying causes and triggers for abuse particularly in cases where physical violence may not be apparent.� For more information, whether you are a victim, friend, family member or neighbour please visit:www.gmp.police.uk/domesticabuse. To contact your local domestic abuse unit call the GMP switchboard on 101. In an emergency where there is an immediate threat to life or property always call 999. Behaviour included under the new legislation includes (but is not limited to) � � Isolating someone from their family and friends � Monitoring someone via online communication tools such as social media � Taking control over aspects of their everyday life, such as where they can go, who they can see, what to wear and when they can sleep � Depriving them of access to support services, such as specialist support or medical services � Repeatedly putting them down such as telling them they are worthless � Enforcing rules and activity which humiliate, degrade or dehumanise the victim � Forcing the victim to take part in criminal activity such as shoplifting, neglect or abuse of children to encourage self-blame and prevent disclosure to authorities � |
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If you are not part of the solution..............
You are part of the precipitate.............. |
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If it weren't for Carbon 14 I wouldnt date at all..................... |
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| Age: 24 |
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Florida |
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