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Quiet, pensive, charming, well-educated male is looking for a devoted, submissive woman. Someone to love, cherish and take care of. But also to teach, guide, use and dominate. I am a trustworthy, loyal and caring person, and normally nice too. But make no mistake; I can be strict and stern when necessary. You will be disciplined and punished to the necessary extent, in order to behave properly. And you will receive corporal punishment from time to time, simply because it gives me pleasure to administer it. That shouldn't confuse you; I will make it perfectly clear, whether it is given as a punishment for some misdeed or poor behaviour, or for my pleasure. Don't expect ever to see me cruel, though. I have no intentions of scaring, harming or in any way breaking down my sub. On the contrary, I will strive to let her thrive in her role as my sub and second half. I became a widower some years ago, after loving, and living with, the same woman for more than half of my life. Though I am determined not to spend the rest of my life without a loving woman by my side / at my feet, I am not so desperate as to grab the first willing female I come across. I have the time and patience required to find the right woman and to do things right. There is nothing fancy or extravagant about my life, nor do I wish there to be. I am well-educated, having a secure and interesting job, a steady income and the home and commodities I need. I like nature and animals, listening to music, love the outdoors and the sea and are indulged in a quite special hobby. Physically I am well groomed, reasonably fit and not looking too bad either, I guess. But I will let you be the judge on that part. I have children. Though they mean a lot to me, they are all adults and independent, so it is not a nanny I am looking for. On the other hand, my children are very important to me, so it is crucial that you get along well with them (which requires just as much of an effort on their part and mine, as it does on yours). Frankly, I have no idea what you look like, where in the world you live, what your race, colour or religion is, or what you do for a living. Nor do I know whether you are younger or older than me, whether you are divorced, widowed or never married, or whether you have children of your own. But I do know for sure that you are serious in your desire to commit yourself in a long-term relationship with a loving, dominant man. If your goal is anything less than lifetime, then I am not the one you are looking for. I also know that you are reasonably intelligent, possesses some social skills and have a good understanding of the kind of relationship you are about to enter. This does not necessarily mean that you are experienced, but you have given it a lot of thought, and you feel deep inside that this is right for you. You are not the sort of woman that needs this type of life because she is too scared or confused to manage her own life. The woman I am looking for is intelligent and determined enough to be able to take care of herself and her life. But she has accepted that living in a caring and dedicated relationship with a dominating man is the only way to reach her full potential as a person, lover and partner. I will expect my woman to constantly try to develop and grow as a person, on all levels. And she will be encouraged to do so. Regarding your physical appearance and condition, I expect you to be reasonably fit and healthy, having a sound height / weight proportion and being generally content with what you see in the mirror. You look after yourself, which implies that you don't smoke, don't use any kind of drugs, only drink alcohol on special occasions (or not at all), think about what you eat and do some kind of physical exercise on a fairly regular basis. Should your current state of fitness and height / weight proportion be outside of the desired scope, you must be prepared to take action, if necessary under my guidance and supervision. You are bi-sexual or bi-curious, as it is my desire to bring other people into our play, from time to time. This is not something that will happen right away, but in due time, i.e. when you know me well enough to feel absolutely safe and confident that this will not jeopardize our relationship or in any way affect my care for you. It shouldn't be necessary to say that you must be relocatable and truly willing to take up a new life here, including learning Danish. Oh, and if you do have children you can rest assured that I will consider them as an indispensable "part of the package", deserving the same care, protection and love as you do. As it should appear from the above, I am quite open as to what type of person you are. The nature of any relationship is a product of the individuals involved, and I don’t believe it is possible to envisage the potential of a relationship until one has a thorough knowledge of those involved. Hence, it seems unrealistic to start out with a fixed idea about the relationship, and then trying to find a partner fitting that image perfectly. As I see it, the real world is about bringing two (or more) people together, who has the same general ideas and beliefs about most aspects of a relationship. Compromises are an inevitable part of a close and lasting relationship. The special thing about the kind of relationship I am seeking is that I will have the final say about who’s giving up on what! ;-) I don’t expect us to share the exact same political views, (non-)religious views or moral values. Nor do I expect us to be perfectly compatible when it comes to sexual interests, likes and dislikes. Some discrepancies are to be expected and some will be accepted. On the other hand, there are things that are not up for negotiation or compromise, just as there may be views, beliefs and limits on your part, that I will not accept or put up with.

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