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I require that a girl shows respect and obedience. I don't like sas's. I do like a girl that is articulate and can express her wants and needs.
I do have my particular tastes as far as playing goes, but I prefer to leave that unmentioned for the time being. I like to maintain a good balance between spontaneity and order.
Generally speaking, I'm very laid back. My opinion is that if I have to keep a short leash, then I should seriously wonder whether it's worth it.
I am a very passionate person. I love to enjoy life and the good sensations that come from exploring the boundary between pleasure and pain. I prefer a girl that does not look like a Suicide Girl. I like the natural look. Also, I like a girl that is somewhat 'girlie.' That is to say, she enjoys dresses, manicures, pedicures, perfume, is girlish, etc. However, she should also enjoy nature and the outdoors. I love nature and the outdoors and I think she should share that interest.
I prefer a gggirl that is somewhat girlie. Seems obvious, but that isn't always so. I also prefer the natural look - not the Suicide Girl look. I love nature and the outdoors and so should she.
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I find it interesting to see the requirements that submissives are demanding in their profiles here: that a Dominant must be this or that, that he/she ensure the submissive of a certain quality of life. What, pray tell, is the Dominant getting in return - the right to fuck you when your delicate sensibilities are open to it? I also see descriptions of submissives who will not do housework or provide service to a Dominant in all things. If this describes you, then you are not a submissive, you are an escort, aka prostitute.
I also am aware that many of those who call themselves Dominant here are nothing of the sort. Just because you have fingers to type doesn't make you a Dominant. Just because you know which end of a paddle to hold doesn't make you a Dominant either.
I've been loathe to explore the psychology of the difference between vanilla, Dominant and submissive. However, I'm finding that I may have to explain it at some point, so it might not be a bad idea.
Also, of course there will always be scammers. That goes with any and every community. I take that fact as a given and do what I can to avoid them. I don't let myself get discouraged because they are there.
I suppose I get frustrated most by the tourists who 'go native' - people who have no idea what they are doing but think that enjoying a little 'slap and tickle' qualifies them as lifestyle kinksters.
That's my rant, take it for what it's worth. |
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I imagine that people use online profiles as play identities. Online descriptions are inherently slanted for the simple fact that there is really no one else around to challenge the accuracy of someone's profile. There will always be liars and fakers, but that's not what I'm talking about. I'm more concerned about people who actually try to faithfully represent themselves. I think people don't realize how very little about themselves they really know. I see this disconnect when I read people's profiles and then actually chat with them or meet them. It's as if to say - it's all very fun and such to have this fantastical persona and play with other people that also have fantastical personas, but when the computer is off, it's time to get back to the business of the real world.' In the real world, there is no room for a woman who wants to be taken seriously and also wants to get pounded with a nice cock from behind on her lunch break. There is no room for a man who wants to do a bareback orgy with other men and women instead of going out drinking with buddies of to a nightclub. I have a very skewed perspective on the world and I know that. I can't live a normal life of work, family, church with naughty fantasy on the side. Naughty fantasy is not fantasy for me. It is more real to me than what people think they have to do to get by in the world. After all, reality is a collective delusion created for the purpose of organizing people. I don't like to be organized and herded around. Maybe I'm writing this as a sort of 'apologia' to explain why I seem weird when people actually meet me. Maybe I'm writing it out of frustration in dealing with people in general. I like my desires and the way I am. It allows me to live in a reality rich with symbolism and meaning. I think it springs from my desire to help people understand that when I say something here, I really mean it and I really am this way in real life. |
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I keep seeing posts here and elsewhere by women seeking a man who will show them the finer things in life: Dom Perignon and sunset on the beach, exquisite restaurants where the tablecloth is fine linen, etc. I've done these kinds of things and there's really nothing that special about it. It seems like code for: I'm a shallow bitch with low self-esteem and I want a sugar daddy to spend his money on me because I'm too lazy and stupid to actually work for a living. I don't want a woman like that. I want a woman who, for example, wants to have a garden, do pottery, can cook, and can sew. I want her to have child-bearing hips. In short, I want a real woman and not a plastic play-toy money-pit. |
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I think I've been single for far too long. I need a woman. I want to ravage her - have her sore, cum-stained, sweaty, smelling of sex, ass red, her pussy swollen and puffy, tits with my handprints and unable to move by the end of it. I haven't completely gone rutting bull moose, though. I'm still careful with whom I choose to be. However, it is getting very hard to contain myself. |
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I feel like the site is becoming more a place for advertising than real people. It seems that so many profiles are fakes. It is disappointing. |
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I went to a munch on Saturday and a play party afterwards. It was an exhilerating experience being around like-minded people. I feel that I can allow my real self to come out without judgement or condemnation. I believe that I learned more about being a Dominant there than any reading or research I've done. I'm so excited to become more involved with the community. I think before I was kind of in a rush to find a submissive for myself. Now, I'm learning that there is more to being a Dom than just having a submissive. It's not just about doing scenes or training. It's also about being part of a community, sharing ideas, experiences, and being with people that accept you as you are. |
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I keep telling myself something I learned recently: I will not forget the past and I will not regret the past. So far, I only have the part about forgetting the past down. I think I need some more rest on the subject now though. |
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Today is a new day. I have been heartbroken in the past and I am resolved to to become a new man. I have done so much soul searching that I am almost sick of myself. That is a good thing though.
I examine myself every day. I look at my psyche. I look at my life.
As I think about it, today is a good day. |
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| Age: 19 |
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