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Blove123

I often question the role I choose to take in this BDSM world. While I'm not submissive by nature, at times I enjoy someone else to be assertive and take the lead in the bedroom. However, my particular kinks and interests have encouraged me to release my Submissive side and engage with people that enjoy the same and I've found I actually DO enjoy the power exchange of a D/s relationship. This is an area I'd like to explore further.
Essentially I would like to find a SAFE and TRUSTING real-time relationship with another and I'm willing to take my time to find it. I know what I want, what I like, and hope you do too. D/s is a dynamic I seek within the context of a primary relationship. My devotion to another is personal and sacred, intense and passionate. My ultimate goal is for a long-term and/or lifetime relationship with someone that is devoted to me as well ... as my friend, my lover, and my partner. Of course, relationships don't just "happen" and two people need time getting to know one another. I don't date or play with people randomly. I am selective and I look for compatibility across the board, not just in the kink arena.If you are looking for someone to be friends with, first and foremost, to share vanilla interests with as well as kink, to laugh and hug and play with, and see where things might lead ... then feel free to message me.
In my day-to-day life, I'm professional, somewhat conservative and very "vanilla" in my dress and appearance (have to be for the career!), fairly easy-going, responsible, and dependable. I enjoy good conversation, laughing and teasing.
Physically, I'm attractive, 5'9", and brown hair and Dark eyes. Personality-wise, I am educated, sometimes silly, goofy and immature, however extremely loyal to those that are important to me. While I definitely have an adventurous streak, my nature is more down-to-earth, and fairly routine and predictable. I love coffee and apples with peanut butter. I have a love for national parks and road trips. I am a pet owner and I enjoy watching movies/TV, reading, hiking, and camping.
If you would like to friend me, please message me first.
Things that turn me on:
*First and foremost ... integrity.
*Good conversation
*Sense of adventure.
*Self-assurance.
*Communication and openness.
*Optimism.
*Kissing.
*Oral pleasure.
*Teasing.
*Toys. Kinks and fetishes (so far):
*Strap-on play.
*Anal plugs.
*Rimming.
*Tease and delay/denial.
*Spanking/paddling.
*Foot Worship
*Bondage
Interested in learning more about:
*CBT.
*Flogging.
*Rope and suspension bondage.
*Chastity.
Bigtits4dumbdads
 
 Age: 36
  Illinois