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NEVER MAKE SOMEONE A PRIORITY IN YOUR WORLD, IF YOU ARE ONLY AN OPTION IN THEIRS.
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found a bunch of these questions on here
if guys who post dick shots are jerks what are girls who post boob shots and pussy shots?
if a married girl is here it means she is not getting what she needs, when a married guy is here how can he be a Dom or Master if he cannot control his wife?
if a person volunteers infomation she or he is desperate, if a person does not share much then she or he is not real or who they say they are?
if a girl engages in prolonged and seemingly never ending email back and forth, she is careful, if a guy is engaging similarly, he is not looking for real life and is here to wank off?
never sure what the appropriate response is to any of them and thought it would be a good set of questions to wonder about
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To forgive someone who hurt you is easy but to trust them again is next to impossible.
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another pearl i found on here......written by a sub from canada....applicable to all doms/dommes in the world though or at least that is how i feel about it....
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Aggressive does not equal dominant.
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found this as a journal entry of a young sub girl....pretty succint and logical. added a bit of my own notes as well...
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1 - talk here for a couple of messges
2 - share pictures and talk for a while
3 - phone
4 - meet
5 - move
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found this link while reading another profile.....at the time of posting this journal entry, i have not read this article and will right after...hope it makes sense to most....
www.newscientist.com/article/dn20770-sex-on-the-brain-what-turns-women-on-mapped-out/ |
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thought this was the right amount of words to use to convey what is being sought. succinct and sounds honest.
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submissive with slave tendencies. Humiliation, some pain, but not a pain slut. Goal is your pleasure and satisfaction. sub know what respect is and knows her place. hardcore with mercy.
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several female profiles do not particularly like - and some detest and hate - profiles that have dick pictures in them. given this, i wonder why there isnt similar reaction from male profiles about boob pictures and pussy pictures...... something to ponder about i guess. |
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'I'm submissive not stupid' ...... how true....and how easy to mix these two things up for the uninitiated ..... picked this up from a sub's profile on here. another profound message for all to pay heed to. |
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it must have taken some real experiences for this sub girl to say this....but it is all so true...
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I'm in the mood to bust some myths...
* Having a big cock doesn't make you a Dom.
* Being a Dom doesn't give you a big cock.
* Having a big cock doesn't actually matter.
*Being a particular phenotype doesn't make you automatically 'superior' or entitled to special consideration.
* Being dominant doesn't mean being rude, or loud, or arrogant.
* Being loud, rude, etc., doesn't make you dominant.
* It is possible to be a Dom and well-mannered at the same time. Try it some day...
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'Trust takes time, time I have. Have You?'
such a deep question....one that demands merit. |
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another female sub profile says this.....how true....
'Meeting is the only way to see if things would work out. '
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pearls of wisdom.....
'i know two people cannot determine if there is any chemistry based on words in a box, so i look forward to talking live and meeting r/t in very short order.'
while not many will agree to meeting in real time in short order, it is true that endless chats and emails are rather meaningless beyond a point.
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so true isnt it .... 'Mutual Respect is the base' .....read this on a female submissive's profile. could not agree more. |
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.....connection, trust and common view are mandatory to share a bdsm journey.......
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are there an equal number of guys that say 'i dont want to see pictures of your junk' when referring to girl part photos as there are girls that say 'i dont want to see pictures of your junk' when referring to boy parts. curious.....what might be this mean - that guys can never get enough or is it that it is just the boy parts that are the unchallenged junk parts...lol.
and why do shy girls flaunt as much as they do......hmmmm. |
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it is very easy to bring in all the negative emotions like cynicism, anger, hate, skepticism, rage, frustration and many more and express it all here on a forum like this, more because none of us need to wait for the other person's reactions or care about the other person's feelings.
what would be encouraging for all concerned, and show that it is in fact worth engaging with that person is if one is able to get past the immediate negative reaction - which might be valid - and demonstrate a sane emotion, a positive emotion instead.
we never realize how another person might be begging to feed off one's positive emotion and not want to get pushed into an abyss by another dose of negativity.
same goes with lies and truth, i would imagine. so awful a feeling when one realizes she/he has been lied to.
may 2018 help us all in this direction of positive emotions and truth. |
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Happy New Year to all of you. if you find yourself coming to CS - knowing in your heart that things are futile - it is time to accept you have a potential addiction problem. May this year help you know where you stand and give you the courage to take the right decisions. Good luck. |
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yet another wonderful expression i found on here
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I can explain it to you, but I cannot understand it for you.
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extract from one of the profiles i was reading...such a wonderful message that all should imbibe.....
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Communication is ALWAYS the key regardless of how you identify yourself or what dynamics you chose to build the foundation of your relationship on.
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merry christmas to one and all. hope you are enjoying the festivities as you should. |
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found another wonderful expression; exactly what i want to say only this is the best way to say it and hence put it here.....
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Only those who wish for more than online chats, I'm looking for real time, regular meets. No trust can be built without from behind a screen or phone, I seek reality.
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happy thanksgiving to the folks that have celebrated earlier this week. my thank you to all fellow CS users for being an amazing and wonderful community of kinksters. |
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it is interesting how many girls have had to say - no dick pictures, no junk and practically no guys seem to say no boob shots, no pussy shots....lol. amazing how differently the two genders are wired.
another interesting thing one can see on girl profiles - i am a very shy person ...and something to this effect and when you view photos, naked full body shots, including face, boobs, pussy. wonder what shy has come to me lately.
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such a wonderful thing to say is this not....continue to be amazed at how much wisdom exists here.....
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ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!
Please choose a positive one, life is so much more fun that way
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Journal entries of a person here that seems to have seen life up close and has the ability to succently and yet impactfully express herself....just wonderful....hopefully you are able to appreciate the intensity of these words as much as i have been able to....
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I really don't want much, just my name written across Your heart!
I have late night conversations with the Moon. He tells me about the Sun and I tell Him about You!
I was born with my heart on my sleeve, a fire in my soul, and a mouth I can't control.
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I will not send you money if I don't know you.......simple !! |
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expectations, expectations, expectations........how refreshing.....lol.....
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I just want something real, something meaningful, deep....I don't want someone that wants to own me just to say that he "owns" a slave....I want to be loved and cared for the same way I will love & care for him....I want to look at him the way I look at no one else....
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To be intimate with you I need to know you and like you a lot first......
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"Slaves are like camels, out of 1000...its very hard to find a single 1 sutiable to ride".
how self aware is this girl.....very nice. |
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Such an important message for all of us on here....candidly articulated by someone on here....
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One really important thing to remember:- Don't ever lie to me, I WILL find out, it might take a few days, a few weeks or a few months but eventually the truth will come out. I hate liars with a passion.....
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the standards of acceptance are really really high here; why - because everybody is doing everything possible to gain the other person's attention - be it for a short session, or a relationship anything...but incredible amount of effort to grab attention...so naturally there is competition; when there is competition, cheating always fails.....in this case lying is considered as cheating....or cutting a line....thus it is best to be in one's best behavior and be honest.
even if one is unable to get any attention, one carries back the satisfaction of being honest. if one is dishonest, what happens is one loses a part of oneself to the lie...and imagine what happens if this keeps repeating....
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is this wise or what....
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If 2 people like spanking it doesn't necessarily mean they can have a decent conversation or can stand being around each other.
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when i was reading a member's profile, this made me smile.....found it innocently sweet and eager....
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I am no limits slave but i am not into blood or scat.
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one request for all the users of this chat site....and i place this request on my own accord and leave it to you to either to do something or none at all.
this is a free website and all users have pretty much unlimited mailboxes on here. however, it all gets added up and turns into several gigs of data that requires hard drives to store and retain because we want these in our mailboxes. more storage means more cost to the team that has created such a wonderful platform like this for all of us to use.
so if you can take a few minutes this weekend to clean up your mailboxes and pledge to keep your mailboxes uncluttered and cleaned up, it may help reduce the overall storage space needed. and this also will contribute to less energy being used and thus making this website green.
oh and if you wondered what is in it for you - well this is a great opportunity for you to declutter your mailbox....something you always wanted to do anyway. so why not get it to it now?
thank you for reading and hope you do some spring cleaning of your mailboxes as you deem is possible. |
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read this on a submissive's profile......so nice....and quite close to what i want in a girl......
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I like the darker side of submission and service I have deep desires to experience the ways of being a good submissive Of course vanilla interactions are needed in the everyday world... But deep down ...I know what I am I am looking for a relationship Real life- Real Time Please be sane ....
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Wise words from a sensible sub/slave girl.....taking liberty to post it here...
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Please remember: I may be off leash, I may be uncollared, but I am not yours until I make that choice!
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The onus of proving you are you, and you present yourself to be truthful and real and sincere is on YOU; I do not owe it to you to believe everything you say; I want to, but I do not HAVE to and I certainly absolutely do not OWE it to you. YOU on the other hand, HAVE TO prove yourself to me.
I owe it to you to be decent, respectful, present myself honestly and sincerely but that is about that. My line ends there.
If someone else screwed with you and messed you up, I can empathize because trust me, it has happened to me as well. But if you choose to project that on me and use that against me from the get go, only one thing I will say to you - FUCK THE HELL OFF - you have not grown up enough to be here. This is an adult club .... adult means you should have grown up. |
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a very nice journal entry that i read today.....makes incredible sense and hence taking the liberty to copy and journal it here....
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..... think about what those first few messages to a girl say.
The first one should be relatively short, bit long enough to get our interest. Remember, we get a lot of crude come ons as well as insults, and pretty cookie cutter compliments. So try to stand out.
Don't be afraid to make the first contact. Most of us are too shy or just too overwhelmed to reach out first.
Be original and sincere. Give is information about you and why we would be a good match.
I like to look at it as a cover letter for a resume.
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"Under consideration" .... What does that even mean ? People keeping their options open ?
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With considerable dedication and preparation, breast-feeding without pregnancy (induced lactation) is possible.
Normally, the natural production of breast milk (lactation) is triggered by a complex interaction between three hormones — oestrogen, progesterone and human placental lactogen (“prolactin”) — during the final months of pregnancy. At delivery, levels of oestrogen and progesterone fall, allowing the hormone prolactin to increase and initiate milk production.
Induced lactation depends on the successful replication of this process. The subject should be given hormone therapy — such as supplemental oestrogen and progesterone — to mimic the effects of pregnancy. After two months stop the initial hormone therapy and begin pumping her breasts with a hospital-grade electric breast pump. This encourages the production and release of prolactin, fooling her body into believing she has given birth.
At first, pump for five minutes three times a day. Work up to pumping for ten minutes every four hours, including at least once during the night. Then increase pumping time to fifteen to twenty minutes every two to three hours. Continue this routine until she begins to produce milk naturally. Now her body will take over and she will continue producing milk indefinitely as long as she continues to be milked regularly. Further hormone treatment may be needed to encourage the continued production of prolactin which helps to maintain the desired level of milk production.
The subject’s nipples may become sore, particularly at the start of the process and will need to be treated with creams to prevent cracking and maintain healthy nipples which are essential for the supply of milk over a sustained period.
The induction process should ideally be over four months or more, but each subject will react differently to the cocktail of drugs and the regular stimulation of her breasts. Some will begin producing milk very quickly and can be transferred to the milking shed once she has begun to do so. Others may take longer and need a larger dose of hormone therapy and/or breast stimulation.
A few may fail to produce any worthwhile quantity of milk and need to be transferred to other duties. However most healthy young women can be made to produce a high quantity, high quality product within a relatively short period of time, regardless of their original breast size.
As a welcome side effect, milking will cause the breasts to grow and the nipples to become more sensitive to oral stimulation. This in turn will cause most of the subjects to experience intense sexual pleasure from the act of being milked, particularly where this is combined with stimulation of their clitoris. Over time most subjects experience growing feelings of contentment from the milking process and grow increasingly submissive.
This has proved, perhaps surprisingly, to be particularly true for subjects who had previously exhibited a dominant personality, making this process ideal for training women who classified themselves as being domme. |
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Today's technology makes it easy to create alter egos and live all together an unreal virtual life. Given this, the onus of making me believe you is on YOU. I do NOT owe my belief to you. Unfortunately if you are one of those that suffer the Belief Entitlement Syndrome, my sympathies with you.
Similarly I am responsible for my own safety on here. Thus I will do everything I can to stay safe until I am sure you are worthy of my trust. Until then, like it or not, you are at best a Trojan Horse with no respectful intention.
Just the way things work around here....try not taking any offense about this. It is a virtual jungle out here .... too !! |
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I don't have breasts, nipples, a mouth, a vagina and an anus. I have udders, teats, a fuck hole, a cunt and a shit hole. It's a simple switch of words but it is very effective at switching your mind set.
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everyone on here have been given the power to block anyone they choose to.....and each one comes here knowing the other person has the right not to respond..
and everyone also knows that we are all obliged to come here with our best behavior even if we are largely anonymous and may never meet the other person.... |
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what should one make of it when the profile notes say 'i am new......' and the date of joining is 2009 or 2007 or 2011 or whatever......easily several years old...never know....seems like whatever thought could come across as either judging or desperate or potentially both......despite this it does seem strange... hmmm. |
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i am immortal....which means i have an unending amount of time...so go ahead and waste it as much as you want......!! if you cannot see the sarcasm in this....you are not for me ;) |
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email housekeeping will help reduce the need for server space for the cs website owners...thereby reducing costs.
once in a while i delete emails that are no longer useful or necessary. it helps me keep my emails manageable.
i think for the hosts of this website it would free up lots of server space which means more resources available.
let us do our bit to keep the carbon footprint of this website to the minimum. |
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be honest, be honest, be honest......trust me....works all the time..... |
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It is curious that a good number of photos posted by girls appear to be taken in office/public bathrooms and stores' trial rooms....interesting.... |
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it is so incredibly easy to be a brat and lose our manners in the cyberworld. after all, how many know or can get to us or know it is us even if we accidentally bump into each other in the real world.
but then....would it not be proof enough of how responsible we are about presenting ourselves in our best form if only we held on to our manners and treated each other with respect, just like we would if we were interacting in person?
works both ways for doms and subs, masters and slaves.....does this not? and definitely goes a long way too. |
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In many cases, a submissive is just a strong person looking for someone stronger...
So wonderfully said. I am amazed at the number of nuggets of wisdom I stumble across on here. |
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"Sometimes one puts walls up not to keep people out, but to see who cares enough to break them down." to know the difference is a big challenge and most miss the opportunities because of communication or the lack of it. As a sub or slave, it is right that you put walls around you...just make sure with time you communicate - to those that YOU feel are entitled - why the walls. Not doing this, or doing this too late is without a doubt a lose of opportunity.
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another gem of an entry from another member's journal....
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Here's a tip..... Sub doesn't mean stupid, remedial or desperate regardless of shape and size... Take note....
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This is a journal entry I found very apt and there is so much truth in this observation.
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I just can't believe how many here lack respect all because of the anonymity they have online.
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something of a guideline if you will.....when you write to someone - be it boy or girl, be it submissive or dominant...whatever....if you write to someone and they do not respond, you could try one more time and then dont. chances are quite high that the block button will be invoked. there are cases when writing to a person once can have you blocked but i think that is being overboard and such people are not worth engaging with, more because they tend to overlay past experiences which means they may be prone to bringing their past and their baggage with them..not something most want. anyway...
1- if you write to someone, read their profile first.
2- if you find inaccuracies or discrepancies, move on. no need to advise...all here are grown ups and know what they are doing....despite them saying otherwise.
3- if they dont respond to you the first time, your chances are already very slim. optimistically you could try one more time but STOP after the second time.
4- if they do respond and share their opinion, which is divergent to yours, dont try to convince them. it rarely ever happens.
5- if they delete your email unread, dont try again, ever. there could be a 1000 reasons to delete unread and i personally dont care about any of them. not worth your effort any more than already put.
6- if you sense something is right after having read a profile or an email, trust your gut and sense. you are right 100 percent...you just dont want to believe it. give it a chance.
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financial submission - frankly i was not into financial domination and as much as i say this in past tense, i doubt if i can get myself into this. for me bdsm has always been about connection and chemistry, whatever be the degree of it.
financial aspect somehow seems transactional. i am sure those in it have a different opinion. but one question that has left me rather perplexed....wouldnt those into financial submission turn bankrupt in a matter of minutes or days or weeks....and thus in no time must have nothing to offer...because even the richest would have only a finite amount of it. |
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I am amazed at the pearls of wisdom that I find ever so often on here....one more for those that share and care.
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All the women from their birth are searching for their Master.' Aristotle ( teacher of Alexander the Great ) 350 b.c........
"A man married to a woman who is as good or better than a prostitute in bed has no reason to stray," "A man's appetite, which is greater than women's, cannot be denied. And rather than allowing him to sin, a woman must do all she can to ensure his desires are met." Dr Rahaya Mohamed
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i read this in journal of the profiles.....very well said and respectfully so.....good one.....
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To those who accuse me of being a fake and blocking me before I have a chance to reply can I suggest you actually have a conversation with me before you judge me! .......
Don't judge what you don't know, who knows you may just miss out!
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when one gifts a fellow online member of this forum a not-so-good experience, be it lying, half-truths, unwarranted blocking, judging, carrying a previous bad experience and applying to the current conversation.....one needs to realize that one has just chipped off a piece of optimism, faith and hope that another person comes here with.
this might not seem like much but hope, trust, faith, honesty, respect and purpose - these are some of the things that most here are actually seeking....be it girls or boys.....everybody. these needs might manifest in ways unique to an individual....but most often than not this is what most come here for.
the next time you find yourself lying, misrepresenting, sharing half-truths, misguiding the other person...think how you would feel if it happened to you. if this does not do much, own up to the fact that you just made this forum just less purposeful for the other person...and that is NOT what that person has come here for.
just as we keep our streets safe, clean and take responsibility, own up yours on here as well. this is our civil responsibility. |
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Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live.
People on this website.....try not to kill the trust, hope and anticipation with which many come on here. It does not matter whether you intend to or ends up so.....you are still responsible. Why? Because you are an adult...and you are expected to own your actions. |
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a very nice note i read on someone's profile.....very profound....
"The more you share the real you become..."
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When a couple makes contact, it would be nice for whoever is making the contact (the male or the female) to identify themselves...preferably without having to ask !! |
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One of the profiles I saw here had this on it.....I find it to be profound, common sensical and yet least attended to.
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Dominance isn't a license to be abusive; It's a reason to be protective, nurturing, and instructive. |
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Many on here have expressed frustration having to deal with those that waste time, are potentially fakes and have chosen to give colorful names and even created alter-IDs to let others know.
A few things that I think may work for all, without the aggravation are:
1) Be in control of the pace of conversation; even if the other party is accelerating the pace, keep the pace that is comfortable to you
2) Even if the other person shares photos and other information, you don't; not for the first 10 conversations. Oh by the way, sharing photos in today's world unfortunately means nothing. People loose cameras, phones, accounts are hacked and many other things happen.
3) Have a try-out for chats too.....have a window of 2-4 weeks wherein all you do is ensure you are in touch, email and stay in touch. Reasonable, real, sensible people see a lot of sense in this; others, well lets just say they magically disappear
4) Try not to forget that even on here - the internet - we are real people. Try not to do propose or even do anything that you would not do if you met the person in real life
5) No matter what, even if the other person chooses poorly, try not to loose it. The cross and burden of guilt should be carried by those that should.
In my experience, anything that happens too soon ends much faster. And if you are the kind of person that carries your heart on your sleeve, well, be many many times more careful. Guy or girl, dom or sub, master or slave......well.....some things in life don't make this distinction.
Good luck.
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***** GOOD QUOTE I READ EARLIER TODAY *****
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always. |
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*******DISCLAIMER ********
This entry is NOT intended for any one person or any one culture or set of people; these are my thoughts based on several years of coming on here and my experiences, amplified by a very recent distaseful interaction with someone local (from my own country); the intent it is to convert my experience into something that potentially is useful for the rest of us. After all we are all here to find a better experience, whether we know how to go about it or not ******
*******DISCLAIMER ********
A very disgusting and disrespectful experience on here has prompted me to write these notes. Hopefully this helps the rest to avoid similar situations.
There are several of us and each one comes with her/his own motivations. Motivations include web/porn addiction as well. How we are expressing our motivations is subjective. How we are working towards these motivations is subjective. How these motivations are perceived is subjective. There is incredibly subjectivity involved.
While seeking out a partner - whatever be the motivation - those seeking should have the guts and courage to be truthful, non-judgmental, open-minded, courteous, respectful and humble. Nothing in this world can beat the combination of honesty and humility.
Some cultures allow for the right behavior to be shaped right from the beginning/childhood. Some cultures inadvertantly or by design (I am not sure !) allow for corruption of basic human qualities. In some countries it is okay to be corrupt; in some countries it is okay to speak lies (some would argue these are necessary as well !). Some cultures allow for people to be very judgmental; other cultures encourage repression of expression of any kind. This shapes people whether they realize this or not.
Now the internet allows for alter egos to emerge and thrive. This is where all of us need to be cautious. Are we talking with the person or with her or his alter ego. Where does this person come from? What is her/his culture? How has his culture shaped her/him? Is his internet alter ego the intoxication that some people hide behind to behave crazy?
Watch out for these behaviors. Be cautious but try not to judge. Be watchful but not disrespectful. Be patient but if the other person is taking you for granted move on. Nobody with a sane head on their shoulder would push you into anything. No sane person would push !! period.
The push that submissives and slaves ask for is AFTER the basics are in place, the basics being honesty, trust, respect, humility, willing to look past the past. The basics will and can never change no matter how "kink-based" the relationship is.
Those that cannot respect you are not worth your time. Those that cannot be truthful are not worthy of your time. Those that cannot learn from life and use the internet forums such as these to improve their lives are not worthy of your time. Those that imply they are doing the other person a favor are not worthy of your time.
It is not just the Dom or Master that deserves respect; the sub or slave deserve even more of it. And if either cannot value the respect extended, or if this balance is not observed, the signs are right there for you to see. None here are to be hurt, none here want to feel attacked, none here are here to be taken for granted, judged or indicted.
Look for these signs because you already have seen enough shit in life for you to come here searching for a better experience.
****** I thank the those that have gone beyond their means to offer me negative experiences without whom this journal entry was not possible ****** |
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As I was looking at submissive/slave girl profiles, that had just two pictures - her boobs and her pussy. The profile had just one sentence "I am extremely shy !" Go figure. |
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Happy New Year to one and all, those that chose to have mature conversations, those that dropped conversations abruptly, those that chose to ignore me, those that interacted with me through the effects of their past experience.....everybody.....may you find that you seek. Happy 2017. |
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Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to all that find themselves here on account of need or whatever.
Choose to make a resolution this year not to mess with others on here and make CS a cleaner better place to find that we seek. |
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1. ALWAYS LOOK YOUR BEST/ NEVER STOP IMPROVING YOUR APPEARANCE
This is crucial!!! you will never attract Men not looking your best, and you will never keep a Man if you let yourself go. Always improve, always get better. Be the gorgeous you you were born to be :)! [Note: Be the kind of beautiful He wants e.g. if you are naturally platinum blonde and He prefers brunettes guess what you’re doing to your hair…]
2. COOK FOR HIM
The age-old saying is true: The way to a Man’s heart is through His stomach. Cook for him whenever He is hungry, and certainly make him 3 delicious meals a day. your preferences do not matter, cook for His tastes alone. Cook naked. Always bring His meals to Him in a pleasant manner. Offer to suck His cock as He eats.
3. CLEAN HIS HOUSE
Every inch should be clean enough to eat off of. He should never have to lift a finger in regards to cleaning His home or clothes. Offer to clean Him, His car, His office, etc. Remember: It can always be cleaner.
4. BE HIS FUCK DOLL
If He allows it, edge daily so you are nothing more than a wet and eager hole for Him to fuck. Fucking Him should consume most of your thoughts in between wondering how you can please Him better. NEVER say no or act displeased to sexually serve Him. It is an honour to be used.
REMEMBER: Nothing is too degrading for you to do for Him. If something brings Him pleasure, it is 100% your job to do it with a smile on your face.
5. BE HIS DE-STRESSOR
Always make your body available for Him to take out His frustrations on. If He wants to fuck, choke, slap, punch, kick, spit, or piss on you, take it like a lady. It is your job to absorb His stress. This may include reminding Him how amazing He is, giving Him massages, etc.
6. OBEY HIM
Self explanatory. Do as He wants, and do not dream of disobeying Him. This also includes staying away from other Men and women that are bad influences.
7. FIND HAPPINESS IN HIS HAPPINESS
Literally only His happiness matters. Live your life to please Him, and you (hopefully) won’t go wrong.
Always go the extra mile!!! Buy Him presents, remind Him how wonderful He is, etc :) |
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Another gem I picked from a girl's profile notes. The creativity is wonderful.
"Blocking me after posting something moronic so I can't point out the utter stupidity does not absolve you of your idiocy." |
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Saw this on several profiles listed as female subs/slaves.
"If I write you and your not interested please show manners and say no thank you". Yes these words are on female profiles.
And yet a huge number of people on here dont pay heed. |
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When you know that most on here are not who they say they are - for reasons that they are able to justify to themselves - and then you meet someone that is at the very least who she/he says she/he is, what do you do? Do you continue to look at them through the glasses tainted by others? Do you look at them for what they are? Do you look at them and say - thank God for you, because you just justified my hope ! |
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There is no such thing as love. It is only irrationality that one feels comfortable in and then irrationality that one does not feel comfortable in. A convenient label called love is placed on it to sell cards, gifts and crap. It is that simple. |
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Family is not about sharing the same blood; it is about love; it is about who makes you feel loved...no matter what. |
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Love is the answer, but while you're waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions" - Woody Allen |
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D/s is about Respect, Honesty,Communication, and Trust, all make Integrity. Neither are given Respect or Trust, based solely on what our role is. We each need to earn and build the D/s foundation on these four pillars. This takes patience and courage; the Authentic have these. Are you authentic ? If you are in doubt, face the mirror, it gives you the truth...just keep your eyes open.
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