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IF I HAVEN'T MET YOU IN PERSON: your friend request will be rejected. Period!
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Hello there,
I am 29 years old, Gender Fluid/Fucked, a Primal Alpha/Domme, and a Sadist. My husband is Mr. Obsidian and he is bi. We may play in separate rooms, but never separate houses. If you step to our marriage, you are gone! We are looking for a sub/slave/pet, not new marriage material. We are quite happy with each other. :-)
I am Gender Fluid which is a type of Trans. If you are Transphobic or Homophobic...
...MOVE THE FUCK ON!
Some would call me a seasonal kinkster, others would call me a flake, but the truth is... I have a low tolerance for bullshit and a fuck ton of life to live. Sometimes I am just too damn busy to be social. If you've not been to my house, or get called "friend" by me in person, don't assume you know or understand anything about me. And don't talk shit about me either! I can put my money where my mouth is, and have references. (pics of recent "work" available! LOL! Teehee! :-P )
I have learned the hard way over the years that genuineness and honesty scares the shit right out of phony and false people's booty-hole. I don't lie, and I admit to my mistakes. If you are not that way, I PROMISE that I won't like you.
I recently discovered that I am well liked in some circles (who the fuck knew?!?!) and people enjoy me. I am as shocked a you are.
Kink is in my soul.
I was dumb, young, and stupid once. I was introduced to the lifestyle shortly before my 18th birthday, and when I was 23 I thought I was the shit because of it. Please learn from my mistake: There is NO END to growth on this path. The moment you think you're the best, you've just fucked yourself out of true greatness.
(A special thanks to the leatherman that shut me right the fuck up! You were hated at the time, but it was the best thing that could have happened for my journey.)
I am a practicing Pagan. Not really an oddity on this site, but putting it out there. My Husband and I lead a small, but amazing, group of practitioners. I teach leadership skills, and communication skills to both private and public audiences, as well as Pagan/Wiccan themed classes for free if I can (for travel and materials when i have to); because the Craft is a GIFT, not a profit opportunity.
I consult in Group Organization/Setup as well as the Pet Industry (grooming and behavior). I've been getting booked quite a bit these days, so life can get crazy every now and again. (hence, too busy to be social).
If you are a kinky group that needs an organizational setup consultation, feel free to contact me. For groups that give back to the Leather or Sexual Freedom (Kink/Fetish/BDSM/Alt) community, I don't charge (but I will cap my hours). If you are a douchebag group that exists for owner-ego-stroking, my fees are triple.
I am a Sadist in the truest sense of the word. I derive pleasure from the pain and humiliation of others. I like to play with what I call “Pin Cushions.” Pain sluts and needle lovers are my friends. The sight of blood makes me wet (literally) and I have been known to get high off of the smell.
IF YOU ARE GOING TO SCENE WITH ME, AND ARE HAVING YOUR MENSES, I NEED TO KNOW BEFOREHAND! I go quite primal at the smell of blood when I'm in a scene and not expecting it (Yes, I am weird and can smell it like a fucking shark), and for your safety and mine, it is pest that I am prepared.
Cutting someone and watching them bleed is the ultimate moment of intimate power exchange. Having them bare their very essence to me is an act of total surrender and trust. There is NOTHING like it!
I can play soft and hard, but I prefer hard. I like to fist, beat, and belittle my playthings. I can give a mean beating. If I really know/trust my bottom/sub/slave then I like to add anal play and needle play to the mix. I love the feel of a sharp needle sliding through the tinder flesh of a nipple. I am also particularly fond of clothes pins.
I LOVE to mind-fuck people. You tell me you're afraid of clowns... and I am going to dress like Bozo when I play with you. You tell me that food play gives you nightmares... I'll make you sit in a pie...
I LOVE CORSETS!! I love the way they feel, the smell of the silk, the slow tightening around my waist. I love them. Leather, silk, plastic, canvas…. I LOVE THEM!!!!!! But one thing I love more than Corsets…..
….. DUCT TAPE!!!!!
I mostly play with women, but also love to play with boys. My kink isn't really about sex, so I don't often give my subs a "pickle tickle" at the end of the night. If a plaything has been really well behaved, I have no problem using a strap-on to reward him/her, but otherwise I leave that to Mr. Obsidian. If I really know/trust a male bottom/sub/slave, I may turn him into a meat dildo.
My husband loves to fuck, suck, and lick chicks and dudes. So, if you do like a little sex after your pain, there is a viable penis nearby most of the time. His penis is rather large, so.... be prepared. Mr. Obsidian is more of a pleasure/ orgasm torture Dom and Gentleman.
So to summarize: I am married, Gender Fluid/Fucked, play with women and men, like to make people hurt and bleed, like to fuck with people and humiliate people, and i like to be squeezed and sticky!
Peace, Love, and Leather,
~Ms_Bloodstoned
