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I despise typing profiles. Always feels like somthing vital is left out... Sanguin Dominant (if you are unsure as to what that means or intales? ASK!)
I have bin in this life for a long time..... almost 16 years now.
At present? I am not looking for anything besides what I already have.
I have met a few people here who I could class as friends and i know there are others who wish to learn more.
Thus I will say this once, and only once...
Ask if you have questions. I will answer to the best of my ability.
I do have a blood fetish. Blades or needles the result is the same.
I take my role very seriously and I hold devotion and loyalty in high reguard.
I don't let anyone go under my blades without carefull consideration.
I live my ilfe under one guiding princable:
"The Creed of the Dominant...
Above all, He cherishes His submissive, in the knowledge that the gift of her submission is the deepest, truest form of love. He is demanding and takes full advantage of the power given to Him, but He knows that the sharing of the pleasure that comes from that precious gift is what makes Him worthy to receive it.
He is in control of Himself first and foremost, so that He may control His submissive. As a strong and demanding Dominant He can cause His sub to cry real tears. As a tender lover, He will kiss those tears away without stepping out of character. His strength is never wavering for her, yet He is vulnerable to her if He finds the occasion requires. In times of trouble, a Dominant will leave the roles behind, to be a supportive friend and partner, never forgetting that this is still a loving relationship between two caring individuals. He is quick to understand the differences between fantasy and reality. He would never ask a submissive to put Him before her career, or family, just to satisfy His own pleasure.
To win His submissiveness mind, body and soul, He knows He must first earn her trust. He will show His submissive His humor, kindness, warmth, and power. He shows her that He is a Dominant she can learn from. She sees that His guidance and tutoring is knowledgeable and deserving of her respect. He knows she needs to feel His strength and His romantic love.
He is romantic enough to be protective and chivalrous. When called upon, He will fight for His lady's honor. When she needs it He will be unrelenting and obdurate. He proves to Her that He is someone she can lean on and depend on.
He teaches His submissive Her lessons of trust and obedience constantly. He is a strong and unyielding teacher and taskmaster. He will accept no flaw, and nothing less than perfection from His student. He will ask much of her, and give her much in the process. Never does He use discipline or punishment without a good reason. When He does, it is always with knowledge and careful consideration. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to Him.
He is a careful guide, with safety always His main concern. He knows how to orchestrate the use of pain to extend the bounds of pleasure. He is a mentor who can bring her to the edges of her envelope, and gently show her the inner courage to reach new heights and to grow. He is always open to communication and discussion, desiring to hear her wants, needs and fantasies. For through knowing these things He becomes worthy to compel her actions.
He is patient, taking the time to learn her limits, and knowing that as her trust of Him grows, so will they stretch those limits, and grow together.
He never has to demand ritual behavior by her. She responds to Him out of the want of pleasing Him. Compliance's come from wanting to please, not the fear of punishment. He understands the fragile nature of mind and body, and never violates the trust given to Him. He is secure enough to laugh at Himself and the absurdities of life. Courageous enough to accept assistance and admit errors. Open minded enough to learn constantly new ways and ideas of improving. His tools are mind, spirit, soul, and body, with a little help from rope, crop, flogger, paddle and blindfold. He earns compliance of her mind, He demands control her body.
He does not desire ritual behavior from her. He knows respect is earned, not demanded. He wishes her actions to be gifts of love and He desires that she responds to Him out of the need to please Him. Compliance comes from the wanting to please, not the fear of punishment.
He compels, rather than controls.
He is old-fashioned enough to be a chauvinist, yet modern enough to respect and admire His submissive, her strength, her courage, her depth of devotion. He is quick to point out the difference between them, He also knows there is no inferiority in those differences.
He cherishes, protects, defends, and possesses her. Quick to point out the difference between them, he knows that there is no inferiority in her submission, she is a treasure and worthy of His devotion. Her desires and responses give purpose to His efforts. He is in awe of her.
He understands that each partner gains from pleasuring the other, each in their unique way serves the other. He knows that love based on mutual respect is the only binding that truly holds.... for submission and trust can never be taken or demanded, it can only be given and earned.
He strives always to be worthy of this, as He lives for her gift.
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