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It's really astounding how many people who don't currently own slaves, and have minimal experience in owning a slave want (MULTIPLE) submissives and/or slaves. To people with experience, that pretty much just translates to "I'll take whatever I can get, and everything I can get".
Slaves and submissives are two completely different things. If you can't tell the difference, neither party will be happy with you just piling more and more people to the mix, all of whom most likely will have different expectations with the others.
This slave has seen many a "House" fall because the "Master" was too concerned with obtaining the next new shiny toy, and didn't know how to spread his focus and attention among all involved.
If you don't have a slave, focus on finding *A* slave. ONE. Make sure you're compatible and it works. There's no point in finding others if your first isn't compatible. If they see that, it will only cause chaos and discord in your home, which will ultimately leave you slaveless.
If you are looking for a second, MAKE SURE that they are compatible with your current. If they aren't compatible, you'll just have a house with pissy slaves. No matter how much you tell them to put their feelings aside, an unhappy PERSON is not as productive as a happy one.
Yes, Tell your first that you intend to get another, but there's no need to act like a kid in a candy store yelling "Gimme! Gimme!!!" at every pretty gobstopper, jaw breaker, and lollipop you see. Have standards. THAT, boys and girls, is why people get scammed. They let their standards go and are willing to overlook things that in hindsight, were obvious red flags. |
