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BlondIDWIDom

"To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all". - Oscar Wilde Safe and sane Dom looking for a good sub. I enjoy being strict with the rules and discipline along side a caring play Daddy Dom. I've done both age and non-age play as a Daddy. "Patience, caring, and gentleness delivered with an edge" I am looking for a safe and sane sub. I discovered this side of myself over 15 years ago and of course dove in head first. If you are familiar with the Meyers-Briggs I’m an ENFP. The headline for the personality was “gives life an extra squeeze” and that would be me! If we click and meet for drinks or coffee I'll tell you the whole story. I'm single, never married and no kids. I keep myself in good shape as I teach Pilates for a living but am not a fitness freak. I don't have a perfect body and don't expect my partner to have one either. In fact I personally lost about 60 pounds, I looked like Drew Carey! I have traveled quite a bit and my last trip was to Normandy France and Provence. I would like to travel and live overseas to further study the French language and culture. I have no intention of getting old. My friend and I have a pact to meet at Roy Rogers house (close to the geographic center of the country to have a shot of brown liquor when we're 100. I plan on attending. (Sad side note, the friend I was supposed to meet bailed on me and died from knee surgery complications) I am "firm but fair" and like to mix the sensual with the, hmmmm, less sensual. I enjoy the mental side of bondage and control as well. It is a two way street as well; both must be happy! I actually get a great deal of pleasure from seeing my partner pleasured and happy. I'm open to casual play but really want to find a sub. I'm also open to training/helping newbies in any way that I can. I had an awesome sub friend who helped me be a better Dom and in part molded me into what I am today. I feel it’s time to pay it forward. I think it's critical to get good training, and have good BDSM friends to make you even better! Ideal Person: I am looking for someone who is fun in and out of the scene, interested in exploring the local BDSM community and events and clubs (this is optional but would be fun). Enjoys, or would explore, some public play. Someone who enjoys bondage, discipline and maybe some light humiliation. No doormats!
alluringsub23
 
 Age: 28
  Rhode Island