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To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all. - Oscar Wilde
Safe and sane Dom looking for a good sub. I enjoy being strict with the rules and discipline along side a caring play Daddy Dom. Ive done both age and non-age play as a Daddy.
Patience, caring, and gentleness delivered with an edge
Im a Dom by nature (or so Ive been told by a few subs) and am looking for a safe and sane sub. I discovered this side of myself over 10 years ago and of course dove in head first. If you are familiar with the Meyers-Briggs Im an ENFP. The headline for the personality was gives life an extra squeeze and that would be me! If we click and meet for drinks or coffee Ill tell you the whole story.
Im single, never married and no kids. I keep myself in good shape as I teach Pilates for a living but am not a fitness freak. I dont have a perfect body and dont expect my partner to have one either. In fact I personally lost about 60 pounds, I looked like Drew Carey!
I have traveled quite a bit and my last trip was to Normandy France and Provence. I would like to travel and live overseas to further study the French language and culture.
I have no intention of getting old. My friend and I have a pact to meet at Roy Rogers house (close to the geographic center of the country to have a shot of brown liquor when were 100. I plan on attending.
I am firm but fair and like to mix the sensual with the, hmmmm, less sensual. I enjoy the mental side of bondage and control as well. It is a two way street as well both must be happy!
I actually get a great deal of pleasure from seeing my partner pleasured and happy. Im open to casual play but really want to find a sub. Im also open to training and helping newbies in any way that I can. I had an awesome sub friend who helped me be a better Dom and in part molded me into what I am today. I feel its time to pay it forward. I think its critical to get good training, and have good BDSM friends to make you even better!
Ideal Person I am looking for someone who is fun in and out of the scene, interested in exploring the local BDSM community and events and clubs (this is optional but would be fun). Enjoys, or would explore, some public play. Someone who enjoys bondage, discipline and maybe some light humiliation. No doormats!
I consider myself a traditional Dom and also discovered I have a Daddy side ) I enjoy nurturing, guiding and mentoring and feel this is a nice balance to traditional domination. To me, a Daddy Dom is a dominant male who has a strong Fathering urge. When the Daddy Dom takes a submissive, he treats her rather like a little girl. He guides, teaches and offers her what she needs providing her with tenderness, warmth and support. He will help her set and reach goals, improve herself and be the best she can be both as a submissive and person.
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