A gentleman who isn't always a gentle man... you like? Articulate, ethical, imaginative, well endowed, fit, solvent, youthful (always guessed at a decade+ younger). Up to date photo available if we determine the appeal is mutual, I'll want a recent one of you as well. Self description is honest, no disappointments.

My own pleasure stems in part from what makes her feel good (which does NOT mean that I won't be running the show). No unwelcome extremes.

Numerous interests aside from the D/s component. I'm a musician, producer, traveler... well respected within my profession. Sufficiently astute to have retired at 50 (not inherited, got there on my own).

Seeking a compliant, sane, sensual, nurturing woman, one with a strong natural sense of who she is. NOT seeking damaged goods, i.e. a woman who feels her lot in life is to be abused. In other words, the "slap and tickle" (cuff & blindfold?) is a mutual exchange, one of honor and respect, yet you understand and truly desire that we have different roles.

Seeking the classic "lady in public, uninhibited behind closed doors" type. Physical beauty is welcome (like, duh!), but you needn't have a world class face and figure; depth, commitment, manners and compatability are equally important. While I'm not on a trophy hunt, you'll need to be reasonably well put together. "BBW" does not appeal to me. You are sufficiently self confident to offer an initial "hello" if my words here stir something within you. Tell me why you are contacting me, show me at least a corner of your heart!)

Not into other men, rover, potty play or cutting. Ok... I might slice away a pesky garment if in the right mood... BRING SPARE CLOTHES!!! I never, ever switch... NO children! I'd contact the appropriate authorities if I saw kids involved.

Now an empty nester, relocation is a possibility under the right circumstance. Retired and able to travel. Seeking long term, yet understand that doesn't happen overnight. Willing to explore until the right woman comes into my life.